Tired to trust again

[larisse]

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The question TS, is; do you really love the guy or do you love the feeling to be loved, comfortable, cared for and in love...

Naa man gud times na we tend to interchange both... labi na comfortable na ta sa person involved...

word! maki-ambit ko TS

OnT:

i think himoon ra tingali niyang reason nga magpakasal or makig-puyo nimo kung naa mo anak; if feel nimo nga you love him enough to raise a child with him then by all means welcome him back.
but if ga-doubt ka if he's real this time, entertain your doubts and weigh everything before taking the plunge

kapoy baya ng masayop ka sa pareho ra gyapon nga sayop. kung sa school test pa na, kahibaw ka nga wrong answer jud na, mao jud gyapon i-answer? ingon among mam, wrong spelling is wrong

[iampaul07]

word! maki-ambit ko TS

OnT:

i think himoon ra tingali niyang reason nga magpakasal or makig-puyo nimo kung naa mo anak; if feel nimo nga you love him enough to raise a child with him then by all means welcome him back.
but if ga-doubt ka if he's real this time, entertain your doubts and weigh everything before taking the plunge

kapoy baya ng masayop ka sa pareho ra gyapon nga sayop. kung sa school test pa na, kahibaw ka nga wrong answer jud na, mao jud gyapon i-answer? ingon among mam, wrong spelling is wrong

ka lawm gud ug hugot ani lars.. lawm pa sa pacific ocean

[care_bear]

murag thrilling kaayo ang "someone na padung palang nimo makaila" da..hehe.. cheers sa positive thinking TS wait, imoha ni nga thread ha, dili ni ako.. hehehe

Hehe Yep ako ni thread..mura na noon ikaw na hotseat..hehe O mka post kog advice nimo murag fortune telling "someone padung" jud ang drama..ehehe pero it's reality. C God rajud nakahibaw tanan. But I suggest free yourself from the regrets and what could have been coz u might have been dwelling on it for too long already and it's not healthy. Let's be positive. And before I forget.. I am giving my ex a chance. Please don't bash me just because I gave him a chance. If lisud mn sabton just please try to understand. Thank u.

[larisse]

Hehe Yep ako ni thread..mura na noon ikaw na hotseat..hehe O mka post kog advice nimo murag fortune telling "someone padung" jud ang drama..ehehe pero it's reality. C God rajud nakahibaw tanan. But I suggest free yourself from the regrets and what could have been coz u might have been dwelling on it for too long already and it's not healthy. Let's be positive. And before I forget.. I am giving my ex a chance. Please don't bash me just because I gave him a chance. If lisud mn sabton just please try to understand. Thank u.

it's good to know that you are giving your ex a chance - we never know what will happen until we open ourselves to all the possibilities

i'm all for happy endings - so be it with your ex or with somebody else, basta ma-happy ka, that's all that matters

[care_bear]

word! maki-ambit ko TS

OnT:

i think himoon ra tingali niyang reason nga magpakasal or makig-puyo nimo kung naa mo anak; if feel nimo nga you love him enough to raise a child with him then by all means welcome him back.
but if ga-doubt ka if he's real this time, entertain your doubts and weigh everything before taking the plunge

kapoy baya ng masayop ka sa pareho ra gyapon nga sayop. kung sa school test pa na, kahibaw ka nga wrong answer jud na, mao jud gyapon i-answer? ingon among mam, wrong spelling is wrong

Ganahan kaayo ko sa imo post sis. hehe I appreciated how u put things in proper order. Pero sahay kapoy napod cge weigh sa tanan kng bisag unsaon nmo mas labaw ang timbang sa ktong CGE CHANCE PA. U keep telling yourself that it will be a NO but u (often) end up giving him the chance. CHANCE to hurt u again. CHANCE to be miserable over a situation again. But it's also the CHANCE to start things over again with a peaceful mind. Peace of mind nga sya jud imo gustohon gihapon despite everything you've been through.

Makalagot nga feeling pero it's what u feel and u feel happy despite all the pain he has caused you. hehe

[care_bear]

it's good to know that you are giving your ex a chance - we never know what will happen until we open ourselves to all the possibilities

i'm all for happy endings - so be it with your ex or with somebody else, basta ma-happy ka, that's all that matters

Sis, we dnt know each other (just in here) but your words are comforting me. hehe drama sah? hehe pero it's true I appreciate it a lot. Thanks for the words. I gave it a try (for the 2nd/3rd time) coz the lastym we talked was quite a blow to me. I was satisfied by all his answers and words. Not totally blown but I find (dyutay lang..hehe) security in his words. I like the HIM now compared before but I know that it's too early to tell but for now I dnt want to keep advancing to the future coz sometimes being TOO FUTURISTIC makes me lose my sanity. My paranoia ate me alive, but I know I have to be extra careful now. If I get hurt by him again so be it. It's my choice to welcome him back so I have to deal with the cons later. Pero guys I appreciate all your advices. THANKS.

[larisse]

Ganahan kaayo ko sa imo post sis. hehe I appreciated how u put things in proper order. Pero sahay kapoy napod cge weigh sa tanan kng bisag unsaon nmo mas labaw ang timbang sa ktong CGE CHANCE PA. U keep telling yourself that it will be a NO but u (often) end up giving him the chance. CHANCE to hurt u again. CHANCE to be miserable over a situation again. But it's also the CHANCE to start things over again with a peaceful mind. Peace of mind nga sya jud imo gustohon gihapon despite everything you've been through.

Makalagot nga feeling pero it's what u feel and u feel happy despite all the pain he has caused you. hehe

hala, naa jud naka-appreciate sa akong post, hehehehe

pero bitaw, you may be giving him CHANCE of hurting you again but then you are also giving yourself another CHANCE at happiness - and that happiness is with him. who knows, maybe this time, this is it na jud for both of you

[larisse]

Sis, we dnt know each other (just in here) but your words are comforting me. hehe drama sah? hehe pero it's true I appreciate it a lot. Thanks for the words. I gave it a try (for the 2nd/3rd time) coz the lastym we talked was quite a blow to me. I was satisfied by all his answers and words. Not totally blown but I find (dyutay lang..hehe) security in his words. I like the HIM now compared before but I know that it's too early to tell but for now I dnt want to keep advancing to the future coz sometimes being TOO FUTURISTIC makes me lose my sanity. My paranoia ate me alive, but I know I have to be extra careful now. If I get hurt by him again so be it. It's my choice to welcome him back so I have to deal with the cons later. Pero guys I appreciate all your advices. THANKS.

you are welcome

i hope the guy knows how lucky he is to have you.

stay in love, but proceed with caution

[care_bear]

hala, naa jud naka-appreciate sa akong post, hehehehe

pero bitaw, you may be giving him CHANCE of hurting you again but then you are also giving yourself another CHANCE at happiness - and that happiness is with him. who knows, maybe this time, this is it na jud for both of you

Maayo unta mag dilang anghel ka sis oie..hehehe
Naa mn gihapon ang adjustment pero dili na kaau big time tungod ky buwag balik raman mi for the past 10 years. Hehehe Sa pagkakaron ako nabantayan mas maka rmmber sya sa things sauna kesa ako nah kato before pa unta ako mas maka rmmber ky tungod lagi sa ksakit mao ako kalimtan and iya ipang mention now ky ma amaze ko ky k rmmber pa sya. Murag nag ilis mig kalag gani. Who knows dis time mo workout na amu rltnshp. And maybe gipaagi mig lahi2 nga dalan pra ma ready mi sa pgkta namo balik..hehe toinks...murag drama ang road namu da..hehe pero mao bitaw jud. Bitaw, before pa ako jud kalimtan tanan tungod sa kasakit iya gpang buhat. And after niya (another guy) pain gihapon, wlay kahomanan pero one day ngkita mi balik unexpectedly. My family even asked if aware ba dw ko pag kalit niyag balik and wala jud.. na unsa mga 5-6 years wala contact. But sa ani tanan bisag wla ko idea sa ahead pa namo together ky happy ko nabalik sya. I'll have to enjoy the now before worrying about the later. Hope naa pud ma happy pareha nako..hehe

[iampaul07]

Hehe Yep ako ni thread..mura na noon ikaw na hotseat..hehe O mka post kog advice nimo murag fortune telling "someone padung" jud ang drama..ehehe pero it's reality. C God rajud nakahibaw tanan. But I suggest free yourself from the regrets and what could have been coz u might have been dwelling on it for too long already and it's not healthy. Let's be positive. And before I forget.. I am giving my ex a chance. Please don't bash me just because I gave him a chance. If lisud mn sabton just please try to understand. Thank u.

I won't bash you TS cause i totally understand you. i was on the other side, remember? pasalamat pud ko nga you give him a another another chance, that's what i didn't get (insert sad face emoticon w/ tulo luha gamay). salamat sa advise pud & positive thinking aura