My bestfriend's GF/BF

[Velvett]

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^what's the fuss all about?

kung ako ang guy unya akong gi uyab ang gf sa akong bestfriend, and people start calling me TRAIDOR, i won't go to all lengths claiming otherwise. at that point in time, traidor jud nuon ko.

but thank God nahimata ko, redeemed myself, cleaned up my acts. di na ko traidor.

i cannot change that which i don't acknowledge.

[d`monyita]

ang pagkakamali nya...iya gi-tarong na man kaha.... but may lamat na gyud ila friendship.

[vladmire]

ang pagkakamali nya...iya gi-tarong na man kaha.... but may lamat na gyud ila friendship.

hirap e-retain ang trust basta may leak na..

[Keldricus]

Let them work out to solve their own problems. Just be a friend to both. And set your feelings aside. Im sure your man enough to handle it.

I agree. Let them be. Don't involve yourself.

You were right in letting her go. If you don't want to be in a relationship that started indecently, then get out of it. Better to deal with the temporary hurts now than deal with a broken friendship later which, I'm sure will be remembered by your bestfriend - even if in the future modayun kamo sa girl o dili.

[vladmire]

I agree. Let them be. Don't involve yourself.

You were right in letting her go. If you don't want to be in a relationship that started indecently, then get out of it. Better to deal with the temporary hurts now than deal with a broken friendship later which, I'm sure will be remembered by your bestfriend - even if in the future modayun kamo sa girl o dili.

let it go, there's no reason for you to keep on waiting. move on... life's full of surprises.

[Soul_Captive]

...i am so restless right now (as in right now)..my bf's girl bestfriend just texted me that they met a few hours ago..she texted me right after my bf supposedly went home which means he went to her place..the thing is, a few days ago, she told me that she loves my bf and wants him as much as i do..she even went to the point of asking me to give up my guy to her..i was really appalled by her suggestion and felt a little guilty considering that pursuing the relationship my bf and i have means hurting another person..however, i could not just give up someone i love except if he really wants out..i could not bring myself to get mad at her..instead, i gave her what i think is the sound thing to do which is to talk to my bf about her feelings..i even reassured her that should my bf decides that he wants her and not me, then i would gladly give them a chance to be together...as of now, my bf has not texted me yet..the girl has not texted me aside from the initial message telling me that they met earlier today...
... the thing is i still feel restless even if i think i am ready to let go if the need arises...i welcome any word of advice on the situation...just to keep myself ready for whatever may come...

[amico]

you're doing the right thing. just a reminder, don't make out with him yet, you'll lose a lot. if he leaves you because you didn't make out with him, don't worry. it means he do not deserve your love. if your worried na mapareha unya atong kuan na gamay ug kuan. just take a peek. lili-a lang ayaw lang pa-kuan. and don't give up someone you love just because another person want to have him all for herself. better have a heart to heart talk with your bf and see if he is truly, deeply, madly in love with you.

[shaxyra]

..you did the right thing.... i know you can handle it... you took the situation so calmly na wla man gani ka nasuko sa girl... it's really up to the guy nalang jud.. good luck

[Soul_Captive]

you're doing the right thing. just a reminder, don't make out with him yet, you'll lose a lot. if he leaves you because you didn't make out with him, don't worry. it means he do not deserve your love. if your worried na mapareha unya atong kuan na gamay ug kuan. just take a peek. lili-a lang ayaw lang pa-kuan. and don't give up someone you love just because another person want to have him all for herself. better have a heart to heart talk with your bf and see if he is truly, deeply, madly in love with you.

..ei thanks for the advice..but what's the kuan

[stabwounds]

its your own decision girl and your bf's too just be true to yourself situations like this would happen