
a: because they think the best way to solve the problems is breaking up, rather than talk what went wrong.
q: what would you give to your partner when you have given everything?
a: then, i'd probably just give it a rest.
q: why is it always about giving everything? how about the "taking" part?![]()
A: i agree. I think, in order to love someone it should start within thy self. You still have to take good care of yourself in order to take good care of your partner. Responsibility should start within yourself coz you can't give what you don't have.
Q: what's the greatest lesson you learned from your relationships?
A: Not to give my all.
Q: What's the most stupid thing you did for the one you love?
a: no such thing. if it's done for the one you love, then it shouldn't be thought of as stupid at all.
q: why do you think many people equate love with something negative?
A: i've read somewhere that people have this deep-down instinct to change those na they think need to change. with choosing a "jerk" person, it's a challenge they take on (sometimes unconsciously) with the initial thought that they can actually succeed. but it's almost always like reaching for the moon. people can't change other people. it's internal work.
Q: just a follow up to my previous Q of why there are some who equate love with negativity. could it be that they can't help but focus more on the negative events that happened as a result of: what happened to them/what they allowed to happen to them/the things that they find hard to accept?
A: Most people who have experience love have this mentality that being in love is a lovely feeling but being in love is as well a tragedy for them. Why? (and this will be related to my prev. Q too) Because most people always love being hurt by the same person over and over again. It's confusing how people keep loving people who keep hurting them.
Q: Are u willing to sacrifice your all for the person u love? Why and how?
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