Your right advice.

[noy]

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Happy New Year diha @lifeisunfair! sometimes our sufferings and loneliness can be broken down into perspectives..
tungod kay naay mga tao nga naay mas makaluluoy pa nato pero mas malipayon pa nato..duna puy mga tao nga kung buot huna-hunaon swerte na kaayo sa kinabuhi pero perting mug-ota sa dagway..

it's how we see things..
for starters, think of all the things that you could thank for. starting with those things you have that you know others wished and hoped for.. and if you believe in God, now is the best time to thank Him for all those things..

"no heartbreak can ever conquer a thankful heart".

[porbidaman]

introvert ka brader?...

[silent-kill]

I have a family, my wife, & our 12-year old son.
but we're living separately since 8 years ago.
kay ang akong wife nankakita mn ug lain na partner in abroad.
so i decided nagbuwag mi thru phone ky abroad mn cya.
now Im still supporting my son...in possession of his mother.
kay wala na pabalika sa abroad sa iyang new husband.
financially im supporting my son since then.
we met frequently.
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I have a descent work...I'm renting a room, I live alone.
somewhere in cebu city.
mao jud ni akong life since nagbreak mi sa akong family in 2006.
....work-eat-sleep....mao ra jud na akong life.
akong giantos maski bored kaayo.
I dont smoke.I only drink beer occassionaly.
I accept Im always wanted being a loner.
sa internet ra ko nag kanunay sa akong pc.
pero just this christmas grabe jud kaayo akong way gana sa pasko.
Just like an ordinary day.naa ra jud ko sa haus.
murag lahi jud karon.
nag met mi sa akong son last wek.
nagbonding mi.
karon wana ko ganahi mutrabaho...wanako ganahi mulakaw.
wala na pod relatives nangita nako,mga christmas greetings only thru text messages.
I only eat meal once in a day nlng..wa na jud lami ikaon.
junkfoods nlng pirme.
Mag-cge lng balik-balik sa akong mind ang mga bad & good na nahitabo sa una.
mura ug i always blaming myself sa break-up sa akong family.

murag kapoy na kaayo akong gibati sa akong kinabuhi karon....lami na kaayo ipalayo.
sometimes makahunahuna ko nga its ok to be gone na.
but mak-realize mn ko na its wrong.
unsa kaha akong angay buhaton aron mawa ning akong feeling nga discourage ko sa akong life.
murag emotional down mn ko kaayo.
Franka lng,dile nko happy sa akong life.

salamat kung kinsa mn makahatag sa iya advice kun unsay maayo step ako buhaton..
maski private message lng.

ayaw sigi tanaw sa nahitabo na TS, tanawa kong onsa pa nabilin na pwede buhaton... pag sugod og exercise TS, sunod swimming, sunod biking, sunod mountain climbing, sunod diving, sunod sky diving... waaah ka daghan pang pwede buhaton TS!!

uban nako TS katkat ta bukid.. haha pag palit og tent daan hap!

[jofer]

build a better relationship with your son. nganu palayu man ka ikaw usa.wala naba diay ka nagpalayu ron?
nag inusara ka naman.

[femchien]

pag bonding mo sa imung son arun ma close mo pag maayo .. try a new hobby, have fun or call your friends ..

[lifeisunfair]

tanx to al pipol here...now i wna go hme....

[2nderemperror]

naka try pd q ana b4. akong gibuhat.. aq ra gitan-aw ug just for laugh gag ug planet's funniest animal para malingaw q ug makatawa ug eventually na realize nq nga y man ga usik2x q sa akong oras nga mag guol2x nga daghan man diay reasons para mo katawa ug ma happy. bow (-_-)


ot : anyway, basin magkasinabot mo aning ms.lifeisbeyeeutiful kay pareha mo nga naay LIFE sa inyong
usernames ug contradict sad kay para nimo ts kay unfair, sa iyaha kay beyeeutiful opposites do attract man daw. peaceyow!

[porbidaman]

^^^ Well-said emperor

[diablo85]

TS...never give up...daghan kaau gasul ob ani karon...
kana kai nawala naai moabot nga mas nindot pa ka nia...
everything happens for a reason...

[Lamusika]

Try to love yourself first Ts, If na mislead ka sa karun, think on how and why you started ... life goes on and it's not worth it to be wasted on, remember how blessed you are when you wake up. The moment you breath everytime you wake up it's suppose to be a new life, new beginning and forgive yourself, . It all happens for a reason, start doing it now, niagi na ang dapat or di dpat muagi.
Eventhough you can't go back from the past. then try moving forward be a role model to your son, make him as your strength , show him that your a good father, lead and guide him for not to do the same mistakes again.
Wake up Ts. there is more life than being stuck from the past.
-Meet another people.
-Try to join some community where you can share your life experiences and be advise. (that's what I did pd )
-Love is about finding yourself and love the others as well as yourself.
-seek God for enlightenment, He's always there, watching and waiting for you.

God Bless you Ts.