Your Lover's A Cheater? What would you do? Why?

[aleyson]

hmmm the question is do you love her THAT much to give her a chance...i think you are because you already did...hehehe soooo why not?
well, if she could prove to you that she can be trusted then i dont see any harm in it. just don't expect that she'll be the perfect gf cuz there isn't one. and kung malikayan nimo nga dili mag duda then that would be good too. i've been in ur situation man bro and i gave him a chance too...so far my bf proved to me that there's nothing to doubt and he could be trusted. but sometimes i can't help nga mag duda gamay...hahaha
when both of you are honest about everything and both of you trust each other your relationship would definitely be better

[love2travel]

@unmei: have been reading your posts and the way i see it is: you want to get back with her (because you love her despite of what she did to you) but you want us to dissuade you from getting back together with her....
i think that deep in your heart, you know that what she did was very wrong and that she may do it again... and again...
you are both young (if you've been going together for 5 years, she was still 17 when you first met)...
i think you should go out and date other people... kung kamo gyud, bro... kamo gyud...
the cooling off period could last 2 months (or however long you want) and then you can re-asess if you still want to get together with her after dating other girls who may potentially be more faithful...

[Unmei]

@aleyson : lisod gyud i-fully trust once naguba or almost nawagtang imo trust sa tao.. pero right now shes like showing me that she really cares.. and loves me daw... im still skeptical... ambot oi.. galibog gyud ko...

[Unmei]

@love2travel: salamat sa advice... pero the thing in here is that.. shes making it hard for me to give her up.. coz now shes saying na dili na gyud niya buhaton.. pero if that time happens na buhaton nasad niya.. i think wala na gyud.. dili na ko..

mao na na i gave her a chance.. i dont want to have regrets later... kay basin magsige nalang pud ko ug think "what if?"

[aleyson]

@aleyson : lisod gyud i-fully trust once naguba or almost nawagtang imo trust sa tao.. pero right now shes like showing me that she really cares.. and loves me daw... im still skeptical... ambot oi.. galibog gyud ko...

yup it takes a long time to ever trust them again you know....it took me about a year before i could fully trust him again. so be in for a bumpy ride...hehe
understandable manang mag libog ka...you're still in love thats why. its not easy to move on baya after a long relationship. if you truly believe that she deserves this chance now and shes being sincere in what she is saying then there is no harm in trying it out. for me it worked out.... 3 years mi before that event happened and its been 3 years since it happened. we talked about our problems and opened up about the reasons why we keep things from each other and now that we're more honest it's made our relationship much better and i hope it would work out for you too.

[Unmei]

honesty.. loyalty... faithfulness... trust.... thats all that is needed.. to work this out.. and all other relationships out there....

[head567]

wa uroy mo paakig uhipan pag gamay ninyo!!!!!

[andch81]

well if women cheat its either the men is not gud enuf or the girl is not for u..

[doki]

nangita man og lain sud-an. kapoi ra anang mao ra imong kaon-on kada adlaw ah! suwayi daw ninyo og kaon og humba kada-adlaw beh, tan-awon nato og dili bamo pul-an. this goes not only for women ha

[grlnxtdor16]

for the same reason that mean cheat too! bawsanai rana oie..hahah!