How weird is this? 21 year old guy, 16 year old girl...

[insidious0192]

I have some friends who have a 16 year old daughter. She is cute, but never dated. In our extended circle is a 21 year old guy. He is very socially awkward and youngish, but a senior is college. He has also never dated, and had never even kissed a girl. He is a great kid. Really nice and respectful.

Well over the months we noticed the 2 of them spending a lot of time together. We suspected they liked each other, but they denied it. He was staying at the girl's house, with the parents permission until 2am sime nights (even school nights).

Fast forward and now they are "seeing each other". The girl told her mom that they had been making out. The dad found out and was furious. The mom told her just not to let her father hear of it again. Yeah - weird I know.

But the dad called me today and was asking my opinion. On one hand, we know this 21 year old, and he is harmless as far as wooing the ladies. If she wasn't dating him, she would be seeing some horn-dog 17 year old who would be trying for the panties on a regular basis.

The dad wonders why he isn't interested in girls his own age...

But the ultimate question - how weird is the 21/16 thing?

[bula1980]

i dont find it weird..

[emailroy2002]

its normal...... not weird..

[Little_Mermaid88]

how is it weird TS? because of the age? a lot of people have relationships who are way younger or older than them. age is not an issue. what matters is where people are in their lives.

[Dryst0901]

LOL...not weird for me, unless it is a 10 year old girl and a 50 year old man, Now that IS definitely weird

[Santa Mama]

TS, you are the one who's being weird here.

[mondragon]

intawn pud si TS woi.. isn't that weird TS?

[femchien]

no .. unsay naka weird ana ?

[larisse]

unsay naka-weird ana ts?

[THE KID]

insidious are you a 15 year old boy?...