assess yourself...
No matter how good any advice there is, if you have that deep feelings inside you despite what he did to you, at the end of the day you'll find yourself creating a decision opposite to what you've heard. Ask yourself, does your heart bear that strong feeling that you're ready to forgive? Then ask the "What if's". What if you've forgiven him, are you willing to take risk again? Is it worth giving a second chance? Can you take the thought of him, making love with "other" while you start making love with him again? What if he will do the same thing, what are you going to do next?
Sometimes, the greatest challenge doesn't lie on the decision itself, because what lies ahead and beyond entail even bigger responsibilities. I think creating this kind of decision isn't always about being right or wrong... it's about what you are...
but i also believe on this... depends how sincere the guy and his TRUE Intention of getting you back
