Does Age really matter?

[cuttie_angel]

it doens't matter..what matters the most is that you love that person and nothing more is important than that.

[joshbonz]

age doesnt matter when your in that consenting age na (18 years old up).. if your a guy and your courting a girl or who is 14, 15, or 16... just be wary what your intentions are lang jud.. especially if taas inyong age gap.. girls at this age cant still be considered matured.. even if you say that she has that woman's body and thinks like a woman na jud.. fact is.. she's still a minor, her minds more often than not can change just like a flip of a coin and she's still bounded to outside influences.. dali ra na sila ma influence..

let's go to that girls who are 18 up already and who has partners who has age gaps 10 years and above... I know that you love that person even if all the world will frown on both of you especially if magkuyog mo.. people are people.. and by default.. we are very judgmental in nature.. we easily judge someone thru his outside shell.. I think if naa mo anang age gap relationship.. nakasuway na jud mo nga people (especially aged ones) will raise their eyebrows when kamong duha magkuyog sa imong bf or gf... worst case is.. makadungog kag libak nga nagkuyog ka ug lolo or papa and you're after the material wealth of your partner lang... this kind of situations or scenarios cannot be avoided jud.. you just have to brace the fact that when you commit to someone nga natawo pa una nimo ug 10 years or up..society in general dictates and judges you both (especially the filipino society).

love is subjective..his/her age, or her wrinkled skin or the material wealth still counts along the way.. it is up to you lang to decide nga somewhere in the horizon, you have to accept the reality that your partner (granted wala kay sakit or wala ka na accident, simbako lang) will eventually die of old age jud.. mag una jud na siya nimo ug pahulay... age and time is irreversible..

pick wisely your partner... you cant say basta love lang nimo ang tao nya taas ang inyong age diff, ok na tanan ug who cares to what others say.. your not living in an island my friend.. people and outside factors still counts, even if you shut your eyes and cover your ears.. you are still going to be JUDGE...

[andch81]

wel for me it does... i dont know why..but i prefer older and dont like younger... wel it really depends lng gyud...

[joshbonz]

most girls would prefer guys that are older rather than younger.. I think the reason for it lies the fact that when guys are older na.. they have a much broaden outlook in life,well learn and experience, emotionally security and of course financial stability.

[andch81]

yeah partly yes but dont like to be the one who is gonna handle the rel or basically iw ant my bf to be teh man in our rel and not me.... it would be an insult for their part

[joshbonz]

yes.. most girls like to be babied, pampered, cared and caressed w/ all the time.. wouldn't you agree anch?

[andch81]

i certainly agree.. who wouldnt want that....... diba josh..hehehe

[joshbonz]

[drknyt]

a guy is around 30 something but still looks young for his age in fact could still pass of as a 25 in his looks, pero mid 30s na . no kidding and many times he gets to have these certain connections kadaghan na (kay friendlly man cya w a great sense of humor plus tisoy pud)with a lot of young nubile co workers ages 20-25 pero wa cya mopatol,sakay sakay lang,its the MU thing but the guy did not really push the envelop in pursuing the relationship coz kiwawan cya ba..bata an ra cya manghod ug 10 years ang babaye..he is confused really,,what should i say to my friend should i tell him to go for it..peeps wat is your advice on this m,atter..or should he look for girls of his age bracket pero lisod na man maka kita ana kay sagad minyo na man sad mga babaye ka idad niya ..wat gives..help pls. .

[neomorgatory69]

20-25 na ang girl? ok ra na oist... if ganahan ang girl niya, and ganahan sad siya sa girl, it would really be fine... above naman na sa 18 so nothings wrong there... di naman na ma considered nga cradle snatching coz the girl is mature naman sad... just tell you friend to follow his feelings gud, if go then go, nothing to be ashamed of...