girls, would you agree to have a kid with a gay man?

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

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Sus maam. Genuine kai ni ako kai wa pani ka agi og talib. Hahahahahahasola.

unsa may naagian ana? ilong?

[enimavix]

Kamot rajud. Pastilan. XD

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

poor litol bird.....

[ZD14]

poor litol bird.....

markuz hassler! hahaha

[silahis]

atong buhion balik bi, ky im considering this option when time comes nga nahan na ko mag.settle down.

- wouldn't you feel nga gigamit mo? pero ala mn mo gi ilad. you know he's gay, but nahan siya makakit sa iya liwat. isn't that a compliment sa inyo end nga kamoy gipili?

- what if ganahan pud mo nga naa nay anak, ready naka to enter that stage of parenthood. you're an independent woman and financially stable ka, but due to circumstances ky ala mo nakagahin jd ug oras anang mga uyab2 or mgminyo

- what if after naa na moy anak, you'd be given the freedom to find someone else you'd want to marry... and still in good terms mo sa fathr sa child?

[rosygemini]

atong buhion balik bi, ky im considering this option when time comes nga nahan na ko mag.settle down.

- wouldn't you feel nga gigamit mo? pero ala mn mo gi ilad. you know he's gay, but nahan siya makakit sa iya liwat. isn't that a compliment sa inyo end nga kamoy gipili?

- what if ganahan pud mo nga naa nay anak, ready naka to enter that stage of parenthood. you're an independent woman and financially stable ka, but due to circumstances ky ala mo nakagahin jd ug oras anang mga uyab2 or mgminyo

- what if after naa na moy anak, you'd be given the freedom to find someone else you'd want to marry... and still in good terms mo sa fathr sa child?

Hi ts! Hmm. I knw someone whos same w ur situation. I dont knw the real story but mejo libog lang ko. Does it bother u pa diay his being gay until now? If yes then why stay? Commonly cguro s reason is maluoy mo s anak. I dont knw if its an act of selfishness but thats ur life ts. U always have to ask first ur happiness. The situation if u can still tolerate it. Cos f u wont then u always have to deal to things nga mahitabo pa just because of naa mo baby. Its like always saying "cge nalang"/ "ok nalang". Happiness always starts from you ingon sila. Which i agree jud.

If no pod then whats w a lot of what ifs? Sakto ka ts wa ka giilad cos kana lagi ur aware. If comfortable ka s situation nimo ryt now. Stay focus on where u are right now. If iur baby matters most then yaw nato balik balika ang nahitabo before and just live where u are ryt now cos rmmber thats exactly what u wanted at the very first place. Be happy. But i knw u r. But dont overthink. Dont overanalize. Just live and stay happy.

P.s i dont knw anything about u. Opinion lang nako ts😊

[silahis]

Hi ts! Hmm. I knw someone whos same w ur situation. I dont knw the real story but mejo libog lang ko. Does it bother u pa diay his being gay until now? If yes then why stay? Commonly cguro s reason is maluoy mo s anak. I dont knw if its an act of selfishness but thats ur life ts. U always have to ask first ur happiness. The situation if u can still tolerate it. Cos f u wont then u always have to deal to things nga mahitabo pa just because of naa mo baby. Its like always saying "cge nalang"/ "ok nalang". Happiness always starts from you ingon sila. Which i agree jud.

If no pod then whats w a lot of what ifs? Sakto ka ts wa ka giilad cos kana lagi ur aware. If comfortable ka s situation nimo ryt now. Stay focus on where u are right now. If iur baby matters most then yaw nato balik balika ang nahitabo before and just live where u are ryt now cos rmmber thats exactly what u wanted at the very first place. Be happy. But i knw u r. But dont overthink. Dont overanalize. Just live and stay happy.

P.s i dont knw anything about u. Opinion lang nako ts��

hi! thanks sa response. but i think na misunderstood nimo ako point.
i raised those what ifs in support sa initial post about the chances sa women to reconsider having a kid sa usa ka bayot.

[brilumz]

Kamot rajud. Pastilan. XD

ayaw kinamuta lage..mapan os jud na..

[nakedheartlady]

kung ako its a No. unsa man pag-tuo nila namo mga girls baby maker? bitaw kung ganahan man lang gani ko og liwat aw mangita nlng ko guy nga mo love nako nya have family of our own. ngano mo adto paman ta sa complicated nga situation nga naa man pod untay sayon. thats my opinion lang pod ha no offense meant pero basin pod diay TS naa jud pod girl nga game ra au ani nga situation then go for it

[silahis]

kung ako its a No. unsa man pag-tuo nila namo mga girls baby maker? bitaw kung ganahan man lang gani ko og liwat aw mangita nlng ko guy nga mo love nako nya have family of our own. ngano mo adto paman ta sa complicated nga situation nga naa man pod untay sayon. thats my opinion lang pod ha no offense meant pero basin pod diay TS naa jud pod girl nga game ra au ani nga situation then go for it

no problem at all.
yup, mao pud na ako concern... nga basin gigamit ang dating ba. baby maker, matud pa nimo... which is true regardless sa unsa pay reason to justify the action.
the gesture is selfish, and any woman does not deserve it.

that's why sultian daan sa tumong instead nga ilaron, and discretion na sa grl if dawaton ba nya or dili. it may seem too naive to be honest about it when reality itself is harsh & disturbingly unpleasant... and naay more convenient ways nga less hassle but morally unacceptable... oh well. the dilemma.