My bestfriend's GF/BF

[monrose29]

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we dont really know the real story.... easy ra ka ayo ta mo storya.. ma-o nah deli sa ko mo judged wrong is wrong.. but i need to know why?

deli pod cguro sya bo-ang nga mo patol sya sa gf sa iyang uyab kong wala sya feelings ana before... or na-a silay past relationship unya it so happen nga iyang bestfriend ang gi sugot....

or lets says friend silang 3 sa college na ibog na sya da-an anang gf sa iyang bestfriend sa wala pa sila nagka uyab.... but neh give way lang sya kay iyang bestfriend naka una og panguyab...

hanap man gud ka ayo ang iyang story...... im not tryiing to save him(the thread starter) i just want to know the whole things behind his problem....

and if we found out nga iya sayop.. so sakto iyang move to let her go....

[d`monyita]

@velvett --- probably kasi velvett dear si dodong monrose has not been on the other side na natraidoran ng BEST FRIEND whereas i have been on the other end... double double gyud ang kasakit.


@monrose---

remember....he is no ordinary friend.... he was (i say was kasi i question gyud his friendship tawn) the best friend.

ordinary friends dont do that....best friends pa kaha?

it is not a question of WHY she came to him for solace... but that HE gave in to temptation... kasabot ka dong?

[Velvett]

para walay gubot, makigbulag nalang jud ang girl sa iyang bf usa pa siya mangita ug replacement.

[monrose29]

hay naku mga ate.... do i need to experience that kind of problem para ko makasabot?

dont base your own experience to other people kay everyone of us has its own story...

i know sayop na da-an ang iyang gibuhat....no question about that....

what i really want is... the whole story....

maybe if he can post the whole story before they reach on that level.. na-a moy second thought about him... and maybe u can think.. kaya pala ganun.. kc ganun pala ang nangyari...

binabato nyo ang tao... hindi pa natin alam kong anong nangyari...

lets say for example.... naka patay yong tao... so anong expression natin? masama sya? syempre naka patay ng tao.. di bah? hindi natin alam eh self defense lang yong ginawa nya...

[d`monyita]

@velvett ---- KAHIT pa siguro nagbulag sila nung boyfriend.... endi pa rin PROPER.... siguro mga 2 yrs down the road... puwede na...

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i remember before...one of my closest friends went to the US... tapos ako "borrow" iya uyab as my prom date nung high school (with permission yan ha....) tutal ang kailangan ko lang ESCORT.

hay sus!!! nung inuwi ako ba eh bigla ako hinatak tapos ni-hug na lain na gani ang imo feeling? dili na hug na pang-friend? ay ako gitulod oi! i said...." im sorry. your gf is my friend and i dont wanna do anything to ruin our friendship. elementary pa kami nyan. bagong salta ka lang sa eksena... kami forever friends na." even in high school i understood BOUNDERIES. (to borrow a friend's term)

to be tempted is NOT a sin.... to GIVE IN... naku...dun talga magkaproblem.

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to the thread-starter..... pasensya ka dong.... wala gyud ikaw excuse. wala wala wala

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@monrose

u do not equate traidorism with self defense dong.... the bestfriend was not defending his life....

[monrose29]

here is the real story. na edit na diay niya....

My bestfriend's girlfriend and I have secretly involve with each other but I decide to cut our communication because I know that this is not right because she is my bestfriend's girlfriend and now I wonder am I right that I just let her go because she is my bestfriend's girlfriend and I didn't want our friendship to be destroy with my bestfriend or should I fight for what I feel and not considering my bestfriend's feeling Our relationship began when my bestfriend taken her for granted for 3 months and then that time we become close to each other we talk for almost everyday and then I feel that I was falling for her and then one day she told me that she was falling for me so we agree to have a relationship even that she has no formal break up with my bestfriend our relationship was just fine we have no fights and she told me that she was happier with me than to be with my bestfriend but when there this time that she ask permission to her parents about our relationship her parents was so mad with her and her parents told her that she should choose my bestfriend so we broke up and settle their differences with my bestfriend they continue their relationship but we didn't stop our communication she even told me that she was not happy anymore with my bestfriend and she was happier with me it just because of his parents that she keep her relationship with my bestfriend and I think she didn't want to let me go So that time I decide and told her that I think we should stop our communication because I think that it would be better and now we didn't have any communication now I wonder am I right that I just let her go like that because I don't want my friendship with my bestfriend destroy and even that I love her so much or should I fight for what I feel and not considering my bestfriend's feelings

[d`monyita]

i re-read it ganina ra and still feel the same. NO EXCUSE jud hahahhahahahahha

[monrose29]

ang lufet mo naman momy d... hahahaha

he is weak on that side.. thats why na buhat na niya... and gi take for granted lang ang gf sa iyang bestfriend... sala ba ang ma inlove?

[d`monyita]

OPKORS SALA!

[monrose29]

u do not equate traidorism with self defense dong.... the bestfriend was not defending his life....

no... what i mean is your impression to him. is at high level... para bang unsa ka dako iyang sala for making commitment with his gf bestfriend when in first place gi take for granted lang ang girl sa iyang bf....

let me ask momy d.. what if ikaw yong girl? gi take for granted ka sa imong present bf? then ang iyang best-friend is alwasy there to comfort u then.. na fall inlove mo to each other... what will u do?