Boys Don't Cry: True?

[giver_bert]

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BIG BOYS don't cry..

^^ we are conditioned for that from birth and even from our mothers.. a presupposed fact that i find frustrating, infuriating and a confusing phenomenon for women..


the male, in fact, hurts no less emotionally than the female, but has been conditioned into not expressing it in the same healthier way, which do and learned probablyn by women.. this imbalance in the emotional development of us guys manifests itself in numerous ways in modern society, from domestic violence, drunkenness, social violence, sabotage at work and self-destructive behaviour..

we tend to prefer to cry alone to this day and i think that while being able to open publicly as a man and cry in front of a group is a positive thing, i believe we also need to at least recognize that this male isolated grieving is something, which men will and have to still do..

BIG BOYS.. GUYS.. MEN.. do cry..

[P-Chan]

well depende ra na ninyo oi.. ako i don't cry anymore.. it's a little boy thing... lolz..

[anniepetilla]

maka-cancer raba ang mohilom ra bisag nasakitan...

[P-Chan]

well then level 10 na diay ni canser nako.. lolz...

[miApLaziDuz]

BIG BOYS don't cry..

ya think so.....?

I DO!!!!!!!!!!

[grlnxtdor16]

@P-Chan: pa astig2x kunohay... heheh! dnt tel me nga di jud ka mu hilag... asa ku mu tuo ana.... hihihihi!

i think boys cry sad oiz... they're human raman pud. maka experience gyud na cla ug mga circumstances na they'd feel so helpless and the only way to release everything is thru crying.... there's nothing wrong with crying btw, its natural. ang kanang tao nga di mu hilag padala lang na sa ila pride.pero deep inside, ga luha luha na diay 2 sa kasakit... huhuhu....

[nunobone]

yup yups... men do cry..

peru mostly they/we just wanna show it to public... ya know na..

[grlnxtdor16]

@nunubone: are u a guy?

heheh! ma daot man gud ilang so called "astig" image....

[14343]

...i cry when i want something....hehehe

[FK]

i cry when I yawn...