What can you say about marrying foreign nationals?

[incognito]

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moaksyon lagi simang sa topic ba. vivo ra fud ni! hehe!

[Pinkdimensions]

nangita lang gyud lusot aron dli ma apil sa bride catalog.. hiih

[Velvett]

kamo jud mga pinoy...it's not all about the money. some want blue eyes for their babies...beh beh kamo naa mo blue eyes?

[Pinkdimensions]

hahhaa..tall & mistizo kids??

[yokam]

^pero kung mo hook up lage ni Prince William or sa prince of brunei a different category na na...class A. Heheheh

It would depend if you're happy. Not all people find happiness and contentment in money, popularity or even by marrying a royalty. I asked my cousin about this and she replied mas daghan pa kunong tao nga mas gwapo ana nilang duha. Sugot ka you marry Prince William and end up like her mom Princess Diana? Living a very uncomfortable life which ended up dead in a car crash?

The bottom line, mamatay ra gihapon tang tanan. . What matters most is living a happy life, the kind of life you really wanted.

[incognito]

ang ako lang..sigurado man gyud nga taas kaayo ilong ako anak...dili lang pod pareha kataas sa ilong ni pinocchio! hehhehhe!

[Velvett]

The bottom line, mamatay ra gihapon tang tanan. . What matters most is living a happy life, the kind of life you really wanted.

ergo, if the foreigner-marrying filipinas are happy with their lives, then we should let go of all these bashing. happiness is a personal matter. kung malipay jud diay ang uban nga mahaw-as sa kalisod and they can muster enough courage to marry then fall in love (as opposed to falling in love and then marrying), wa na tay paki ana di ba? praktikal man ang uban, and many of them are sincere baya...ma inlove ra kuno sila kung makita nila nga ayuhon sad sila ug ang ilang mga families.

[monrose29]

in a brighter side i can say that mas ma ayo nalang mangasawa og foreign kaysa mag pa membro sa mga prostitution nga na-a sa kamagayan og J.llorente mag standby...

in the other side pod mga girl ayaw jud tawn huna2x- nga tanan maka asawa og foreign hayahay ang kinabuhi.. if u have the money and maka afford ka sa imong mga expenses or do u think nga kaya gyud nmo buhi-on imong ka ugalingon... ayaw nalang pangasawa og kano dai para lang sa material nga butang.... og ma-o ra nay maka guba unya sa tanan nmo pangandoy ma damay pa imong pamilya..

love our own nalang kaming mga pinoy bisan to-od gamay ra man income deri sa pinas.. pero na-a man pod mga abroad.. og bisan deli abroad pero ma ayo og income og bo-otan pod...

so this is not about the nationality of your husband to be... bahala nag bati nawong imong anak basta happy ka sa imong bana og deli ka kulatado.. and most of important ma ayo relationship sa imong family..


good luck...

[yokam]

ergo, if the foreigner-marrying filipinas are happy with their lives, then we should let go of all these bashing. happiness is a personal matter. kung malipay jud diay ang uban nga mahaw-as sa kalisod and they can muster enough courage to marry then fall in love (as opposed to falling in love and then marrying), wa na tay paki ana di ba? praktikal man ang uban, and many of them are sincere baya...ma inlove ra kuno sila kung makita nila nga ayuhon sad sila ug ang ilang mga families.

The point is to Filipinas who marry just for the sake of money and to uplift their families out of the misery of poverty. Some of them end up with good foreigners who treat them right, show them respect and love them, then lucky for them, congratulations. . But what about those who ended up being abused in any ways? It's no longer practical to stay. Daghan gihapon kaayo ug opportunities ug mga paagi nga makahaw-as sa kapobrehon. Yet they stick to it. That gives foreigners ideas that Filipinas are somewhat robots or objects whom they can control in a push of a button or with a single word.

It won't matter if they fall in love first, they marry for money, or whatever reasons they have in marrying, we don't have the right since it's their decision and it's their life. But such actions give the Filipinas in general a negative connotation. Bride orders? This sounds more like a slave than a wife. Maid or Helper order na lang unta to, mas maayo pa.

[Velvett]

^yes, you have a point. you are concerned with the downside of marrying foreigners, esp for economic reasons.