nganu man ang lalaki mudiskarte sa babaye sagaran bakak man

[kulotzki]

Because truth hurts... And we don't want to hurt the one we adore...

White Lies for courtship is actually necessary, you know why?

It's a simple gateway for you both parties to unravel the question of whether you fit together or not. White lies come from the person (subconsciously) who's trying to cover some "things" that would stop him from reaching his main objective: "YOU".
These lies are actually breadcrumbs for girls to take note of and try to unravel.
The journey itself is courtship in action mao nah, if we say you are "perfect" where as nobody is, we are actually saying that we see and know what your needs are and we can fill them in time.

Hence, the famous saying goes, "My hand perfectly fits yours..." - meaning, each party fill ones imperfection to possibly call them a "Perfect Couple"

[name]

Girls love to hear sweet lies, "atik2 ba". That's the best way to get their attention. Am I right girls?

[unappreciated]

Because truth hurts... And we don't want to hurt the one we adore...

White Lies for courtship is actually necessary, you know why?

It's a simple gateway for you both parties to unravel the question of whether you fit together or not. White lies come from the person (subconsciously) who's trying to cover some "things" that would stop him from reaching his main objective: "YOU".
These lies are actually breadcrumbs for girls to take note of and try to unravel.
The journey itself is courtship in action mao nah, if we say you are "perfect" where as nobody is, we are actually saying that we see and know what your needs are and we can fill them in time.

Hence, the famous saying goes, "My hand perfectly fits yours..." - meaning, each party fill ones imperfection to possibly call them a "Perfect Couple"

when you say "fill one's imperfection", would that also mean that the person doesn't feel complete himself/herself?

[kulotzki]

when you say "fill one's imperfection", would that also mean that the person doesn't feel complete himself/herself?

Exactly. Each and every one of us have imperfections. For example: Insecurities. Di bah you could say na, "I don't feel complete" if wala kay partner or emotional commitment? (be it in a relationship or vocational like priesthood). Ang emotional imperfection is very natural sa tanan taw, bisan bata or tiguwang because we are born as "Social Species". Mao bitaw in any way possible, we need companions, friends, workmates or peers para ma satisfy ato social cravings whereas, sa emotional side of it, we feel comfortable if we have a loving partner para ma satisfy atong intimate-emotional co-social cravings.

[unappreciated]

Exactly. Each and every one of us have imperfections. For example: Insecurities. Di bah you could say na, "I don't feel complete" if wala kay partner or emotional commitment? (be it in a relationship or vocational like priesthood). Ang emotional imperfection is very natural sa tanan taw, bisan bata or tiguwang because we are born as "Social Species". Mao bitaw in any way possible, we need companions, friends, workmates or peers para ma satisfy ato social cravings whereas, sa emotional side of it, we feel comfortable if we have a loving partner para ma satisfy atong intimate-emotional co-social cravings.

But is it not better that before you go into a relationship, you already feel complete yourself?
Someone told me that I should make sure that I don't need someone to make me feel complete
because when the times comes, you'll feel incomplete again when he/she leaves you.
We should not depend on other people to make ourselves feel that we are complete.

[kulotzki]

But is it not better that before you go into a relationship, you already feel complete yourself?
Someone told me that I should make sure that I don't need someone to make me feel complete
because when the times comes, you'll feel incomplete again when he/she leaves you.
We should not depend on other people to make ourselves feel that we are complete.

Well, you do have a point there. But do not forget amiga na subconsciously, the act of "needing someone" to be in emotional commitment is imperfection itself. Ayaw lang e-dwell ug maayo ang pag understand sa imperfection nga driven or ang main object kay ikaw lang. Again, ang notion sa imperfection applies to both of you, mao nang you enter into a communal partnership or what we call "UYAB". Rather, apply the concept of imperfection as being "Open for experience to teach you as a person, and let the object of that experience dance through the music of love..." Murag sa Moulin Rouge bah, come what may, basin wala sila kasabot unsa jud ilang need amidst the huge difference sa ila culture, basta kay na feel nila nga imperfect sila, ni sabay lang sila. And they both commune, nagkauyab and then further imperfections arise. Ang nakanindot lang kay, kamo nang duha muatubang anang imperfections sa inyong relationship after na mo magkauyab


Life is full of imperfections, to play smart, is to face it with someone who shares common feelings with you.

[unappreciated]

Well, you do have a point there. But do not forget amiga na subconsciously, the act of "needing someone" to be in emotional commitment is imperfection itself. Ayaw lang e-dwell ug maayo ang pag understand sa imperfection nga driven or ang main object kay ikaw lang. Again, ang notion sa imperfection applies to both of you, mao nang you enter into a communal partnership or what we call "UYAB". Rather, apply the concept of imperfection as being "Open for experience to teach you as a person, and let the object of that experience dance through the music of love..." Murag sa Moulin Rouge bah, come what may, basin wala sila kasabot unsa jud ilang need amidst the huge difference sa ila culture, basta kay na feel nila nga imperfect sila, ni sabay lang sila. And they both commune, nagkauyab and then further imperfections arise. Ang nakanindot lang kay, kamo nang duha muatubang anang imperfections sa inyong relationship after na mo magkauyab


Life is full of imperfections, to play smart, is to face it with someone who shares common feelings with you.

ka char ba uyyy

[kageron]

when you say "fill one's imperfection", would that also mean that the person doesn't feel complete himself/herself?

you can find some of your missing pieces from others but that doesn't mean they complete you.

[unappreciated]

you can some of your missing pieces from others but that doesn't mean they complete you.

that's right! when they leave you, the more you'll feel that you're incomplete. tsk3

[kageron]

that's right! when they leave you, the more you'll feel that you're incomplete. tsk3

you feel incomplete if you limit yourself and be dependent from them. You are capable of doing things more than you can imagine even if without them