
Originally Posted by
shearts
i never for once said that just because i'm a parent, i'm right & all of you are wrong.
what i'm essentially saying here is that those who don't have kids, by far, tend to not appreciate the gravity of being a parent. you may have an idea it's not easy but what i'm saying is, do not discount or belittle the hardship in being a parent just by saying they were negligent.
chances are, kato mama sa bata at that time naa lain gi-bit2x niya ang bata kay gusto jud mag-kiat & nakabuhi jud siya sa iya mama & ended up smashing into the glass barrier which we all know what happened next.
mao na naka-ingon ko wa mo nakasabot coz wala pa mo nakasuway just how hard it is to raise & take care of your own child. as in pag-alaga jud, not just providing his/her needs.
once you experience first hand the hardships in raising a child, then we'll see if your paradigm will not shift.