Spoiled or Loved? Why man nakaingon ka?

[jlodarl]

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I am loved and spoiled... I am loved coz I know and I feel it.. and spoiled because he just give me evrything as he can..

[admachine]

Loved .. Pero kung mag drama2 na kai spoiled na .. Hehe ahw, depende raman na

[bags&more]

but ive got a friend, ila gibuhat kay dli nila hatagan ug bag-ong toys not unless maguba ang daan..para dw dili mapul-an dayon..
then ang toys kay dapat age and development appropriate dw...i guess gi-discipline na nila bisag bata pa....

[beyee]

Spoiling doesn't entirely entail material things.
You can spoil your child with all the love and care but still
give him the freedom to decide for himself even at such
an early age to instill in him how to become responsible
of his own actions.

Instead of punishing him physically, be firm in pointing him
out what he did is wrong and not the usual "You're bad!"...
Make him understand of the mistakes so he wouldn't do it
anymore because he "learned" from the whole experience.

Ang faet btaw in rearing a child is you'll end up being the
BAD GUY because you impose rules on them but if he sees that
you're being reasonable rather than saying, "Basta, it's my rules."
The child will appreciate you as a parent.

(I'm not a parent but I stood as a second parent when I was only 15
and since then I've been handling lil kids and learned over time how
to deal with them and their tantrums hehehe)