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[Little_Mermaid88]

i think what we, those of us who are parents that is, are trying to say, is that sayon ra kaayo maka-huna2x or sulti nga badlongon or kasaban nimo coz that's not how it works if naa naka imo anak.

ako before i became a parent actually read a lot of books about parenting during buntis pa ako misis. niya ako lang i-look back after 1+yr na nga naa nami anak, a lot of them don't know s#%t.

the only books that have made sense & actually been proven correct are those who are written by a parent. not by some so called "child experts."

my favorite among the books i've read is "Fatherhood" by Bill Cosby. yup the comedian. he wrote a book about parenting. lingaw ni siya & at the same time daghan nindot input on how to handle your child.

bottomline, sayon ra kaayo i-istorya or try to formulate a solution involving how you handle your child but it will mean nothing unless the one talking is a parent too.

so if im not experiencing parenthood, im not allowed to give my comments, is that what you're saying? even my aunt, who has 6 children of her own, still says that it is still the responsibility of the parent. my opinion wasn't to negate what parents do with their child but merely saying to be more vigilant.

[czeskiandgian]

ain't that a well thought response... just because someone hit a nerve doesn't mean you can discriminate.

exactly.. what do u expect me to say to the old man? Yes Sir? I understand Sir??Im not discriminating disabled people. Its just that you are in a public place d ka mag expect og perfect environment. When the old man said that he pointed out his cane to my son! Dili mo aso imong ilong ana?
If ma parent namo, bahala ingnun mo praning or warfreak kai inyo jud buhaton tanan d masakitan inyo anak pero dili halos every second mabantayan

[czeskiandgian]

im not saying that you put a leash on your child, but it is the responsibility of the parent to reprimand if the child is already out of bounds sa iyang pgka-kiat. i will reiterate, I AM NOT BLAMING THE PARENTS FOR WHAT HAPPENED HERE.

You are not blaming the parents here but you are simply giving an INSULT REMINDER TO PARENTS. SM is a shopping mall not a playground?? Be a parent first! It doesnt mean you havent experienced parenthood walai kai right mo comment here. Its just that make sure your comment is neutral. Do not based your comment on just one person only which is your Aunt. Do you have friends nga parent na nya grabe ka kiat ang anak? Years from now if mka anak ka, you will surely agree with us parents here.

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Ako malain jud ko sa storya nga pirmi blame ang parents kai d lalim ma parent oi. Maski 99% imong nabuhat nga maayo if 1% ana nasayup lang ka, ngil.ad naka pagka parent! Mao na siya. Think before you click!

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so if im not experiencing parenthood, im not allowed to give my comments, is that what you're saying? even my aunt, who has 6 children of her own, still says that it is still the responsibility of the parent. my opinion wasn't to negate what parents do with their child but merely saying to be more vigilant.

i understand what you're trying to say but like i said, sayon ra kaayo i-istorya, pero buhata daw if dali ra ba.

sis czeskiandgian & i share the same feeling that mura nalain mi to those who blame or tell us parents off nga mao na amo pagkuwang

especially ikaw na babae ka, ang bond & sense of protectiveness sa imo anak mas-strong compared sa bond sa father & child kay literally gikan jud na nimo ang bata.

that statement is based on my & all other parent friends' personal experience.

once you reach that stage, then you will realize what we're trying to say here.

it will be much harder being a parent labi naa ka abroad. kami dakung pasalamat ni God lang gai nga nakuha namo ang mama ni misis here with us para siya mobantay ni baby during mag-work mi. sometimes ma-extend pa jud na labi na gabie pa mahuman work ni misis & ako mag 12hour shift ko.

[Little_Mermaid88]

You are not blaming the parents here but you are simply giving an INSULT REMINDER TO PARENTS. SM is a shopping mall not a playground?? Be a parent first! It doesnt mean you havent experienced parenthood walai kai right mo comment here. Its just that make sure your comment is neutral. Do not based your comment on just one person only which is your Aunt. Do you have friends nga parent na nya grabe ka kiat ang anak? Years from now if mka anak ka, you will surely agree with us parents here.

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Ako malain jud ko sa storya nga pirmi blame ang parents kai d lalim ma parent oi. Maski 99% imong nabuhat nga maayo if 1% ana nasayup lang ka, ngil.ad naka pagka parent! Mao na siya. Think before you click!

so if im not a parent, that means i can't remind others? where in my statement did i say nga gi-blame nako ang parents sa bata?

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i understand what you're trying to say but like i said, sayon ra kaayo i-istorya, pero buhata daw if dali ra ba.

sis czeskiandgian & i share the same feeling that mura nalain mi to those who blame or tell us parents off nga mao na amo pagkuwang

especially ikaw na babae ka, ang bond & sense of protectiveness sa imo anak mas-strong compared sa bond sa father & child kay literally gikan jud na nimo ang bata.

that statement is based on my & all other parent friends' personal experience.

once you reach that stage, then you will realize what we're trying to say here.

it will be much harder being a parent labi naa ka abroad. kami dakung pasalamat ni God lang gai nga nakuha namo ang mama ni misis here with us para siya mobantay ni baby during mag-work mi. sometimes ma-extend pa jud na labi na gabie pa mahuman work ni misis & ako mag 12hour shift ko.

i do understand that it's harder than it looks. as i've said, wa ko mo-contradict ninyo, it was just a reminder. not only for other parents but also for others nga naa bantayan nga bata.

[czeskiandgian]

[QUOTE=Little_Mermaid88;16345128]so if im not a parent, that means i can't remind others? where in my statement did i say nga gi-blame nako ang parents sa bata?

Of course you can remind, suggest, advise. Make sure lang its not an INSULTING REMINDER. When u said nga SM is a shopping mall not a playground for whom diay na nga reminder??diba sa parents?! You are being redundant and insensitive to the issue. Maka pasaka lang sa kilay ang imong reminder

[Gjhone]

if naa ni sa korte......kinsa jud number 1 ang sad-an ani diay?

[darkdevil]

Daghan na igo ang pride tungod gi blame ang parents...lol


Sala nalang sa bata ngano natagak siya

[czeskiandgian]

if naa ni sa korte......kinsa jud number 1 ang sad-an ani diay?

Of course ang SM--matud pa sa akong RTC Judge nga amahan! AMen! lol

[Little_Mermaid88]

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so if im not a parent, that means i can't remind others? where in my statement did i say nga gi-blame nako ang parents sa bata?

Of course you can remind, suggest, advise. Make sure lang its not an INSULTING REMINDER. When u said nga SM is a shopping mall not a playground for whom diay na nga reminder??diba sa parents?! You are being redundant and insensitive to the issue. Maka pasaka lang sa kilay ang imong reminder

so in what way nga mohatag ko ug reminder para sa tanan nga di mkapasaka ug kilay?