Being the Nice Guy

[Dorothea]

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I believe that "being a nice guy" MUST
be the way to success with women, I ACTUALLY
COULDN'T EVEN PERCEIVE ANY OTHER WAY.

Is that so girls?...

It's not true that women like the bad boys. Nice guys are always in demand, esp. since their numbers are dwindling.

[Dorothea]

You know why lisod sabton ang mga babaye?

kay sila mismo wala mana cla kabalo unsay gusto nla... haha... they always seem to claim that they want a nice guy, caring, senstive guy... and yet they cant seem to dump theyre bad boy or even abusive boyfriends...

I rest my case...

thats why i quit being a nice guy long ago... im not abusive or anything... ever since i havent really have problems with the gurls...

but once in a while theres someone who'll messes you up even though how much u know the game... "you cant win all" is what i say all the time...

haha...

I guess you haven't met the right women yet. The are good girls and there are bad girls, you know.

[Velvett]

Re: is "being a nice guy" the way to success w/ women?

YES gihapon.

[mata_hari]

this is PATHETIC!

[werty]

i dont know.. i was nice to them all, well most of the time.. and it always ends up me being alone

[Jollibee]

It's not true that women like the bad boys. Nice guys are always in demand, esp. since their numbers are dwindling.

errr... ive met lots of women.. and some are really gud in character as well as beautiful...

but really, when it comes to the subject of attraction... welcome to my favorit qoute...

"attraction isnt a choice, its a response"

im not really sure who said that... but i read it somewhere...

... so even if u "claim" u like nice guys... but really you have no choice when it comes to attraction... You may settle in with a "nice" guy, but are you really that turned on or that attracted to them?

and the deal is... bad boys have kind aura that women find magnetic... i told u... its a response not a choice... PLUS I KNOW... IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE...

but who sais attraction made sense anyway...

[Velvett]

^ i USED TO get attracted to problematic guys a.ka. bad guys. I've learned my lesson, and true enough, liking bad-boy types was just a reflection of my own immaturity.

as for me and the enlightened ones, nice guys win.

[Dorothea]

@Jollibee: depende ra gyud na siguro sa babae...because in my case, I've never found "bad boys" attractive. Somehow, immaturity and irresponsibility just aren't included in my list of desirable traits. LOL

[vaughn]

is "being a nice guy" the way to success w/ women?

Yeah ms dorothea was right...depende jud na sa babaye na inyo gi-panguyaban.

For me, much better you show the real you...i mean be true to yourself then than portrait someone you are not. Magpaka-nice2x lng ka para lng sugton.....not a good idea. Nangilad naka gud to yourself and to the girl.
I prefer a guy who's not a great pretender. Mas ma-appreciate nako ang guy coz he's able to show off his imperfections. (Mura bag ani "i love you but this is who i am...take it or leave it! toinks..joke )

But it still depends on the girl.....

[d_m00n_u]

being a nice guy is a sure way to be successful w/ women... as friend..

mao nay tendency.. if you're nice to a girl.. you fall into the friendship trap.. nya lisud na noon to go into romantic relationship.. instead of building attraction.. you will build friendship.. lisud bya to cross from friendshipt to loverss...

kung si david de angelo pana (search sa google iya name hehe) being nice is being a wussy.. and a sure way to fail daw..

instead be cocky and funny kuno to be successfull... you can try.. hahaha i did.. hehe