It depends on how you absorb anah na stuffs... My opinion lang ses hah yaw lang kalain, basin la paka kita sa imong katapat / kung nakakita naka sa imong katapat ky napasakitan ka pag.ayo thats y maglisod nakag tuo... Ky sa gisulti pa "Love is not blind, it sees but it doesn't mind" ky LOVE lageh kaayo...