Am I a horrible Boyfriend for not giving my gf a valentines day celebration?

[chL0e]

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You're definitely not horrible. Been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now and d na xa pirmi naay plans sa Valentines. This year naa, next year, wa na pud and ok ra ko ana. Wa ko nitxt ug lain or unsa pa na diha. You deserve someone better, bro. Ayaw nalang pugsa.

[heisenberg69]

Immature girls want something in valentines day or even anniversaries... They will expect something from their behalf.. but they dont even have plans on their behalf..they dont even want to try to make a move.. they just sit there and wait for a bonanza gift... The rely on these quotes "its better to receive than to give" its like they are collecting a teddy bears or etc..... Grown up girls dont wont expect or think of any material things or a celebration on special occasions.. A simple hugs and kisses or even the magic word "i love you" means everything to them..it will make their day complete and they are fully satisfy with that.. thats all matters to them.. a gift or a celebration is just bonus factor but its not just an important or really necessary for them.. thats what we called "maturity / real woman"

[manoyyani]

btw, ingon siya, the reason why nakatxt siya sa iyang ex is porke wala kuno koi time para niya, and i find that conflicting sa tanang nahitabo sa amoa, my routine is balay-work ra jud, same goes with her, so its just a stupid reason, anyways, salamat kaayo sa inyong mga tubag mga higala

This would be my answer:

you know what, maybe you don't really love her, coz you don't have time for her. lain ra ba ang uban girls, just like yours (no offense), basta ma-taken for granted, makamata na lang ka one day gebiyaan na diay ka. ako, i've been with my gf for over 6 years now (and counting), and i can TRULY say that i love her, coz i always find time for her, i always think about her, i always want to be with her, and i don't take her for granted. and my efforts are well worth it!

Girls are not complicated. All we really need is your time. I'm not saying sakto ang gibuhat sa imong g.f na mu text sa iyang ex, pero wala sad ka naka think na basin naa kay pagkuwang sa iyaha? If your g.f is not making the effort in the relationship, as you said, is that an excuse to also not make the effort?

Immature girls want something in valentines day or even anniversaries... They will expect something from their behalf.. but they dont even have plans on their behalf..they dont even want to try to make a move.. they just sit there and wait for a bonanza gift... The rely on these quotes "its better to receive than to give" its like they are collecting a teddy bears or etc..... Grown up girls dont wont expect or think of any material things or a celebration on special occasions.. A simple hugs and kisses or even the magic word "i love you" means everything to them..it will make their day complete and they are fully satisfy with that.. thats all matters to them.. a gift or a celebration is just bonus factor but its not just an important or really necessary for them.. thats what we called "maturity / real woman"

First of all, it's not about the value of the material gift. We don't need a very big teddy bear na maka suffocate namo, or bouquet of flowers na pirteng mahala and malaya ra. It's really about the thought. Intawn, once a year ra mu abot ang valentines ug anniversary, bisan man lang one stick of tempura sa kilid2x, di nlng jud ka mag effort ug palit? Or how about a SIMPLE LOVE LETTER, kanang handwritten jud? Papel ug ballpen rana, di gapon ka afford? Guys who are way too lazy to do something for their girl blame her instead for being "immature" and materialistic.

Also, to all girls, dili ra ta mag sitting pretty and maghuwat sa atong uyab na molihok. Dapat ipakita sad nato how much our guys mean to us. I will repeat, grand gestures and bongga expensive gifts are NOT NECESSARY. Just something to show that you care and really remember the special dates. Baked goods if maau ka mu luto, or some item that you think your b.f likes or magamit niya. And if your guy lacks in effort, tell him honestly. Ayaw pag text2x sa imong ex. Maintain some dignity. Kung di najud ka happy sa imong uyab, then buwagi. There is no excuse for cheating, even the so-called emotional infidelity.

[heisenberg69]

This would be my answer:

First of all, it's not about the value of the material gift. We don't need a very big teddy bear na maka suffocate namo, or bouquet of flowers na pirteng mahala and malaya ra. It's really about the thought. Intawn, once a year ra mu abot ang valentines ug anniversary, bisan man lang one stick of tempura sa kilid2x, di nlng jud ka mag effort ug palit? Or how about a SIMPLE LOVE LETTER, kanang handwritten jud? Papel ug ballpen rana, di gapon ka afford? Guys who are way too lazy to do something for their girl blame her instead for being "immature" and materialistic.

Also, to all girls, dili ra ta mag sitting pretty and maghuwat sa atong uyab na molihok. Dapat ipakita sad nato how much our guys mean to us. I will repeat, grand gestures and bongga expensive gifts are NOT NECESSARY. Just something to show that you care and really remember the special dates. Baked goods if maau ka mu luto, or some item that you think your b.f likes or magamit niya. And if your guy lacks in effort, tell him honestly. Ayaw pag text2x sa imong ex. Maintain some dignity. Kung di najud ka happy sa imong uyab, then buwagi. There is no excuse for cheating, even the so-called emotional infidelity.

Since you quoted my post... are you referring to me that i cant make an effort or cant afford a thing... teddy and flowers is not my deal its just additional recipe on that day..... way too old school. I never fail to surprise my other half... every girl deserves the best especially those who dont expect something on special occasion.. have you tried to surprise your partner on valentines day? or are you just waiting for a tempura to come along? as what you said its once a year.. but all i hear from you is about the effort of the guy that he should do this and that.. what about you? did you buy/bought a tempora for him? did you ever plan to surprise him on that day in a simple way such as writing letters or giving him a pair of socks or a bobot candy with a not "you are always be my always" (lol).. If yes then you are a sweet girlfriend indeed....

[manoyyani]

but all i hear from you is about the effort of the guy that he should do this and that.. what about you? did you buy/bought a tempora for him? did you ever plan to surprise him on that day in a simple way such as writing letters or giving him a pair of socks or a bobot candy with a not "you are always be my always" (lol).. If yes then you are a sweet girlfriend indeed....

Please read again the second paragraph that I wrote. I clearly stated: "To all girls, dili ra ta mag sitting pretty and maghuwat sa atong uyab na molihok. Dapat ipakita sad nato how much our guys mean to us."

I think for a relationship to work, dapat mag effort ang both sides. Yes, we surprise each other, make each other feel special. Ni text akong uyab this morning nga naa xa sa Cebu. Nilarga xa just to be with me for my birthday, and I didn't really expect him to do that. I don't need any fancy gift. His presence alone is enough to make me happy.

[heisenberg69]

Please read again the second paragraph that I wrote. I clearly stated: "To all girls, dili ra ta mag sitting pretty and maghuwat sa atong uyab na molihok. Dapat ipakita sad nato how much our guys mean to us."

I think for a relationship to work, dapat mag effort ang both sides. Yes, we surprise each other, make each other feel special. Ni text akong uyab this morning nga naa xa sa Cebu. Nilarga xa just to be with me for my birthday, and I didn't really expect him to do that. I don't need any fancy gift. His presence alone is enough to make me happy.

OT: Long Distance Relationship... Tough one indeed.. we are on the same page my friend... Kudos to LDR!

[Silver_deviL]

your not horrible ts... your the worst!! HAHAHAHA!!

mao ra baya ta na ila gusto mag labing2x mo sa valingtimes day.. tsk3x..

[marcus2015]

and you're heading down to splitville TS..

[vicvic]

Yessssss. 1's a year rana

[imba]

OT: Long Distance Relationship... Tough one indeed.. we are on the same page my friend... Kudos to LDR!

Kudos brad same ra ta . . faet man pero kakayanin sir.