Quote Originally Posted by Bernz87 View Post
I think i still love my ex....but I'm afraid that she will leave and hurt me again... Compared with my bestfriend, I know she will always be at my side... She also admitted during my bday that she has a feelings towards me... I Just dont want to hurt somebody's feelings...
Hi TS. relationships is about taking risks, being happy, getting hurt. entering a relationship allows your partner the right to make you happy and the right to hurt you... you make yourself vulnerable to your partner in all aspects of life. We learn from our mistakes, we learn from our pains, we learn to handle these kinds of situations when it comes again, if it comes again. If you choose 1 you'll eventually hurt the other, so eitherway, whomever ever you'd choose, you'll hurt the other. My questions here now are, who among the two you can't live without? As much as i'd want to tell you to follow your heart, its not that easy. Who among the two are you willing to take the risk, risk of getting hurt, enduring the pain, and staying at her side despite eveything? Who among the two are you willing to make yourself vulnerable?