What HURTS when We LOVE and Why?

[kyuusai]

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ang heart maoy mag hurt. it's not easy to let go of someone you love. and what hurt most is when you are trying to let go yet your heart is seizing you to hold on.

[monrose29]

yes i agree but kana bitaw for example... naa LIST of priorities 1-5 kintahay but wala man lang ka sa list maski last priority man lang.... lahi napud nah nga storya uyyy.. .. ..

hmmmm murag deli na jud na debatable kong ma-o man gali na ang tino-od, unsa diay ka sa iyang life? UYAB RA?

[duchess]

OT: noy noah!

hehehe i like the term "debatable".... but the best jud ang phrase na "uyab ra?"

haaaaaaaayy if it doesn't hurt...then it isn't love

[monrose29]

OT: noy noah!

hehehe i like the term "debatable".... but the best jud ang phrase na "uyab ra?"

haaaaaaaayy if it doesn't hurt...then it isn't love

ma o gyud mam, love hurts...hehehe.. nya antos nalang ka? love man kaha nah? basin usa pod ka sa mga member sa mga martyr circle of the philippines hap... pag sure jud diha mam...

[duchess]

OT: hahahhahahhaha

graduate na ko anang "martyr circle of the philippines"...... ngano gud tawn mag-antos...dili ko masantos anah hehehhe

[vaughn]

kanang... love nimo ang tawo but

i-take ra ka for granted...
wala ka sa iya list of priorities...
naa lagi sya but murag wala....

kapaet... it hurts!

Sakit jud....

[Melvinthegreat]

^of course women understand priorities. but guys shouldnt forget the little things--notes, texts, little gifts, meaningful times together, etc. It's the little things that add up and say "despite the busy schedule, please know i think about you and care about you. you are important to me."

tinuod jud ni guys ha. buhata ra gud ni ug ingna ko nga sayop ba ko.

char

dont you think, demanding ra au ang mga girls.. naa man gud batasan ang mga girls na gihatag na pero kulang lang japon pawa nila.. They always mentioned na those little things kay importante para nila. bisag gihatag na mu insist lang japon cla na wala. Unfair sad ngali kung pirmi lang mu ingon na cge lang guy ang pirmi naay shortcomings.. Naa biya jud times na bali ang situation like ang guy ang cge ug hatag ug "little things" then ang girl ang dili ka reciprocate sa mga actions sa guy kay tungod lagi wala cya sa mga top priorities sa girl... wahahahaha... cge daw beh.. hihihi

[Velvett]

dont you think, demanding ra au ang mga girls.. naa man gud batasan ang mga girls na gihatag na pero kulang lang japon pawa nila.. They always mentioned na those little things kay importante para nila. bisag gihatag na mu insist lang japon cla na wala. Unfair sad ngali kung pirmi lang mu ingon na cge lang guy ang pirmi naay shortcomings.. Naa biya jud times na bali ang situation like ang guy ang cge ug hatag ug "little things" then ang girl ang dili ka reciprocate sa mga actions sa guy kay tungod lagi wala cya sa mga top priorities sa girl... wahahahaha... cge daw beh.. hihihi

it's about meeting each other's needs. when we neglect to meet our partner's needs, resentments build up. hahay mura sad ko ug korek.

here's a sample of needs:
1. emotional - the need for one's feelings to be validated and understood; the need to feel loved and prioritized in the partner's life -->hence actions should support this need
2. physical - the need to be held, touched, welcomed, etc.
3. social - the need to be acknowledged to family, friends, etc.

are these too much? i think these are reasonable, just, enough.

as long as the expressed needs are affordable, achievable, nonhumiliating, and non-life threatening, then i don't really see why one shouldnt strive to meet those.

[monrose29]

it's about meeting each other's needs. when we neglect to meet our partner's needs, resentments build up. hahay mura sad ko ug korek.

here's a sample of needs:
1. emotional - the need for one's feelings to be validated and understood; the need to feel loved and prioritized in the partner's life -->hence actions should support this need
2. physical - the need to be held, touched, welcomed, etc.
3. social - the need to be acknowledged to family, friends, etc.

are these too much? i think these are reasonable, just, enough.

as long as the expressed needs are affordable, achievable, nonhumiliating, and non-life threatening, then i don't really see why one shouldnt strive to meet those.

in past relationship,

emotional

ako na gihatag tanan nako time niya, mo absent lang gali ko usahay sa work kong gusto sya makig kita nako, most of the time kong na-a me miss understanding ako permi ang mangayo og sorry or mangita og way para resolve ang issue bisan sya pa ang sad-an, ako permi ang nagpa ubos...

physical

sobra2x nah.. nabuntis man gali nako sya nga ma-o pud iyang gusto.. sobra pa na sa touched, kiss, or what ever physically needs iyang gusto,

social

ma-o neh pinaka lisod.. kay deli balance among life style ako puyo ra squater nag to-o iyang family ako lang sya gipang kwartahan, so deli gyud ko welcome sa ilaha, sa among 1 year and half relationship bisan gate sa ilang balay wa gyud ko kita.... pero sya welcome ka ayo sa akong family sa akong mga couzin..

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per dti permit no. 3456992 series of 2007


hahahahhahahaha.. pasensya na.. wa pa koy panihapon gud... hehehehe

[Velvett]

^ saaaaaddd

diagnosis: failure to meet the social needs of monrose.

take note of that, prospective monrose dates.