Am I a horrible Boyfriend for not giving my gf a valentines day celebration?

[slabdans]

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well, i still have some respects left for her but again, i wont look at her the same way again, thats all, and even planning to just leave and never tell, i dont know, but for now, sige lang, T_T

paita problemaha brad...sige doh! good luck

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haha alam na! naay ganahan mag.EB nga 1 year and 3 months pa iyang last kiss brah. klaru kaayu siya imong first pangitaun sa EB. hehe

topic: ts klaru kaayu nga in.love pa na imong gf sa iyang ex. kung ako ana, buwag jd dayun ang solution. wala nay pa.liguy2x pa. hehe ok ra nang napa-ila2x na nimu sa imong parents uy. nganu man d.ay magpa-ila2x na sad kag lain?

OT -madoklan man ta ani imong kalaki brah! ahahaha

[coldhot]

mulang..its abnormal...

[H.Wolowitz]

sorry sa ot ts but i just cant help it

congratulations kay ni.comment si @coldhot sa imong thread!!!

mulang..its abnormal...

[chelop]

mao nay nakalisud kung mag buwag mi karon dayon, kay napaila na baya nako siya sa ako parents, and same goes with her side, even planning to get married next year and we are currently living together. so lisod kaayu T_T

dili man guro ni rason... kaagi nako ani, almost everybody knows that we're a couple.. pero if di mo.work ayaw ipugos.. kung love ka sa girl kay di siya mag.ing.ana.. i have never cheated or unsa pa na dinha.. the girl don't love you enough...

[SweetSurprise]

I cant just do it due to some circumstances that happened few days back, I saw her texting her ex bf, and she basically admitted it, the text are not even simple hi and hellos, there's something like missing him and jealous of his new gf.
I really love my gf thats why we are still together.
I also have some problems to attend to, thats why i cant just focus on this problem, but it really bothers me.
And now im in doubt, we are together for almost 2 years now.
Tabangi ko mga higala, am i a horrible bf or is it time to really give up and focus on some thing?
I know its lame to ask strangers on a forum but I just need somebodys opinion T_T

Break up with her. She obviously still has feelings for her ex. If you think mag lisod ka start over kay inlove kaayo ka nya, don't worry after 2-3 weeks ma OK naka. Cliche but you deserve someone better

[swapai]

TS, I think it's best if magtalk heart to heart mo. I think it's not wrong nga magtext siya sa iyang ex, what's wrong is kng unsa ilang gitext2 like missing him, etc. Kung gisayangan ka magbuwag mo, mas dghan masayang kng mas magdugay pa mo, and it'll lead to buwag ra gihapon kng magpadayon na.

[my_hEaD_isBIG]

well, i dont know if i did the right thing to forgive her, we went out yesterday, some chocolates (no flowers, im not that type of guy), we ate, and she is very apologetic and promised not to do it again, even promised nga feel free kuno nga mag bulag mi once mahitabo to again, but my trust wont be the same again, maybe just treat her as it is, i cant look at her the same way again, the plans of being married, nawala na to, murag ning lupad nalang sa hangin (which is fine with me). and just an update, okey ra mi, thanks guys for the opinions. salamat kaayo

Good to know nga ok namo, TS. Hinay2 lang mo ug build sa inyong trust ug balik though naa nay cracks and dle na stable in the long run, maprove rana ninyo sa usag usa. Ayaw na minyoe bayhana. Mawala ra lage na imong feelings niya.

"even promised nga feel free kuno nga mag bulag mi once mahitabo to again"

Seriously? Doesnt that sound...... meh, to you? Seriously brah, if I was in your shoes, and yes I was years ago, treat that bi**h like the HO she is. Use her as your f**k doll, harasa, if you havent tried giving her a choice before like "sa loob, sa bibig, o sa mukha?", then give her that right now, and instead of waiting for her answer, do what you want right away (althought some HOS love it like that, so observe lang). And then while doing that, pangita og lain, kanang mas gwapa or mas sexy or mas maka satisfy nimo, daadto fall in love, coz trust me, if you find someone better specially in bed or the body, 2 years wont mean s**t. Then dump her a*s, but not before showing her your pictures with the new gal.

Grabeha nasad ka harsh ani bro oi. Dle man sad cguro ingon ana ang personality ni TS I think.

OnT:

Wala paman sad cguro ta kahibaw kung unsa jud ang tinood nga rason nganong nitxt ang iyang GF sa iyang ex, basin ug kuwang lang sa pagtagad sa ka busy ni TS? nakuwangan sa iyang effort? Gi-away ni TS? Walay laing friend ang iyang GF nga kasaligan maong didto sa iyang ex nangau ug pagtagad/care/sympathy?

Dle man sad cguro malikayan nato nga makahuna2 jud ta sa atong mga ex, naa tay lain2 approach like kutob ra sa huna2, kanang mukalit lang ta ug ngisi kay makahinumdom ta sa atong good memories with our exs, mga ingon ana ba, pero para nko, subra rasad ang makigtxt2. Unsa jud kaha ang tinood nga rason? Explain daw TS.

[xLokii]

^that's right, dili ko in ana nga pagkatao, as mentioned, i still have some respects left for her, well, ok nami in a sense na, dili na kaayu ma pull ni nga issue, but im still in doubt, well, hopefully ma gain na pud niya ako trust balik, hoping that shell do something about it, pero kung wa, its fine.

btw, ingon siya, the reason why nakatxt siya sa iyang ex is porke wala kuno koi time para niya, and i find that conflicting sa tanang nahitabo sa amoa, my routine is balay-work ra jud, same goes with her, so its just a stupid reason, anyways, salamat kaayo sa inyong mga tubag mga higala

[abnermillana]

porke way time, text dayon sa ex :o

[my_hEaD_isBIG]

^that's right, dili ko in ana nga pagkatao, as mentioned, i still have some respects left for her, well, ok nami in a sense na, dili na kaayu ma pull ni nga issue, but im still in doubt, well, hopefully ma gain na pud niya ako trust balik, hoping that shell do something about it, pero kung wa, its fine.

btw, ingon siya, the reason why nakatxt siya sa iyang ex is porke wala kuno koi time para niya, and i find that conflicting sa tanang nahitabo sa amoa, my routine is balay-work ra jud, same goes with her, so its just a stupid reason, anyways, salamat kaayo sa inyong mga tubag mga higala

Tuara nakaigo jud ko. Ok rana TS, ana man jud na "True love may fade but it will never go away" Try replenishing it again for her para dle na cya mutxt sa iyang ex. Ikaw ang lalake, ikaw ang mudala abi palang banga na kau ka.