
Originally Posted by
quirkychinita
bringing up this thread.... question lang ha.
How do you guys deal with a teenage (student) housemate na di nako kaunsa.
here's the thing.
-she only do household chores if naa ra iyang iyaan. Ayha ra magtinarung if naa iyang iyaan.
-she eats in her room which makes her room smell and most likely attract WIIIILD ANIMALS and insects.
-always stay inside her room and sleep all day aside lang if muabot iyang iyaan.
-iyahang pagkaun ra ang siguraduon. She doesnt mind if wala pa nagkaun ang uban.
-Mukalit rag sibat sa balay. Knowing na naay handicapped na nabilin sa sulod. That handicapped can't barely see nor walk straight. (sauna hinuon gabii na muoli pero nasulbad na kay gisaba nako sa iyang iyaan, nya naglagot sya nako even tho our intention is that if naay mahitabo nia, ang iyaan or kami ang kargo de kunsensya)
-biyaan ra na dili hugasan ang plato. As a result ang handicapped ang magtrabaho bisan she's not supposed to.
-eversince nasumbong ang issue na gabii na sya gauli, di na sya gapanagad sa handicapped, sako ug sa isa pa ka adult sa balay na gatrabaho and gabayad sa pinakadakung bills.
-nakipuyo ra ni siya sa balay kay ga skwela.
At first, gi-ignore ra nako sya and always tell the handicapped kada reklamo nia (kay saako man to pirmi gachikka).
I always tell them na I understood nganung ingana sya kay teenager man and boring pud sa haus. And Ive been there pud, only that saamung balay ko nagnilabad.
I also keep in mind ALWAYS na di nako sya kadugo nor do I have any right to reprimand that kid so I do things on my own ra kay kapoy naay gubot.
Until I noticed na affected naman jud ang taw sa balay. Daghan reklamo about niya which is not good anymore.
I reported the issue sa iyang iyaan bisan di ko ganahan kay I dont want her to think na demanding ra kaayo ko. Kay busy man kaayo tong iyang iyaan to notice the situation.
Makastress sya actually bisan okay ra nako to sauna, pero knowing na the important people in my life are affected na, I don't like it.
And we'll be living on the same roof for a very looong time. I dont want things to get awkward.
also, rules at the house were set by her iyaan naman. and most of them gisaway niya.
She's moving sa new home napud with us after sa iyang bakasyon. and I will be observing her.
For now, I just wanna know how to deal with this na dili ma stress.
Before ko mabuang sa kalisang.
But still, I'll try to keep my usual calm and open mind as usual.
Any opinion on this? trolls are welcome too! bring it on!!!! pakataw-i ko beh!