question about the law of Violence against women and children.

[fcotejar]

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Tabang...
Im a mother of 6 yr old daughter, not married. Slowly his father is physically abusing me.
sa una gamay ra to pro karun mag cge nman ka grabe..

D me kasal, wala sya trabaho ug dili nko makuha ako anak nea tungod na maggubot mi...
I wanted to ask help from anyone na naay power makuha nko anak sa eyaha.
Nahan ko muadtu sa police pro wala man ko mga pasa na prove na giphysical ko nea.
nahan ra ko na makuha ako anak pro wa ko kahibaw asa ko mag sugod or asa muadtu...

kung kinsa naa expercience or unsa ma ma advise

[lolzXD]

TS, pa-video para naa evidence

[yvonne6]

violence is not limited to physical, it can be either verbal, emotional and psychological. ipa baranggay! sa baranggay pa lang maka recommend na ug kaso for violence against women and children. ang bata under 7 should be sa nanay except if incapacitated ka. u dont have to have money to see a psychologist, naay libre sa vmmc, dugay lang ang process. depende nimo ts

[digitalsuperman]

duol sa womens desk miga. kay ang mga bata nga below 9 years old kay according to law kay ang default custody ana kay sa inahan gyud. pwedi ka muduol sa womens desk sa inyo police station or sa dswd. right na nimo as inahan nga naa nimo imong anak.labi na wala trabaho imong bana.

[havaianatic01]

kana sa taas TS o buhata na. aksyon dayon para di na molala. hope malagpasan ni nimo.

[THE KID]

RA 9262 : Ang balaod batok sa pagdagmal sa kababayen-an ug ilang mga anak

suwayi og adto ang pulis miga or adto ka sa DSWD....

[SioDenz]

iyang problema is iyang Kapuyo, basin unsaon sila if kuhaon niya ang bata... basin manabla nuon kuyaw kaayu

[high_heels]

Tabang...
Im a mother of 6 yr old daughter, not married. Slowly his father is physically abusing me.
sa una gamay ra to pro karun mag cge nman ka grabe..

D me kasal, wala sya trabaho ug dili nko makuha ako anak nea tungod na maggubot mi...
I wanted to ask help from anyone na naay power makuha nko anak sa eyaha.
Nahan ko muadtu sa police pro wala man ko mga pasa na prove na giphysical ko nea.
nahan ra ko na makuha ako anak pro wa ko kahibaw asa ko mag sugod or asa muadtu...

kung kinsa naa expercience or unsa ma ma advise

Sis this is my honest and purest TAMBAG for you.....

1. An abuse is NOT just physical, RA 9262 covers emotional, psychological, physical and financial abuse against women and children. Including MARITAL rape.

2. Go to your nearest Barangay and file for a Barangay Protection Order. The BPO will be issued against your live-in partner once you lodge a complaint of domestic abuse from your partner. Once you are provided a BPO, your partner is DEMANDED by the barangay to REMOVE himself from you and your child for 15 days. I believe this will give you enough time to secure your child and yourself from any future threats from your partner.

3. Once the BPO is granted, visit LAW INC. (Legal Alternatives for Women). You can google about them. They are a non-profit group in Cebu that specializes in cases to protect women's rights. If you are relatively financially incapable, they can represent you in court to file RA 9262 (which is a criminal case) against your partner. As the case continues, you can also ask for a TPO (temporary protection order) from the court which will DEMAND your live-in partner to stay away from you so he can no longer abuse or harass you. Note that once you win the case, YOUR PARTNER WILL BE SENT TO JAIL with a minimum of 6 years.

4. For your psychological and emotional well-being, visit the PINK ROOM of the Vicente Sotto Memorial Medical Center. They are a division of the hospital that handles psychological cases of women and children. They provide free consultation and sessions for you. Personally, this is also a great opportunity for you to FORMALLY DOCUMENT the emotional and psychological effects of your physical abuse since your therapy/sessions will be documented in their clinic by a licensed Psychologist. It will be very handy once you file criminal charges against him.

5. Since he is out of job, it is within your BEST interest to look for a job to SUPPORT yourself and your child. Because once you have financial capacity, the court can easily grant the child custody to you since you are capable of rearing your child financially.

6. Every time he physically abuses you, go to the barangay and file a blotter report. You need to establish that the incident did not only happen once, but it has been a series of incidents. The more records you have, the easier it is for you to establish his violent streaks against you.

Hope my post helps, and hope this will help other abused women here.

[reighyah]

deretso na paBARANGay! maglagot jud ko anang mga laki na yanoyanohon rag pasakit ang mga girls oyy...lami keo puspusan dritso!

[stew_griff]

dapat sa dswd or womens desk dretso, den di jud atrasan o pasay loon sa babae..

sus mao jud ning gina ingun sa mga katigulangan na sa bokton pa unlanon, sa komo pakatolgon,, tsk