How to Deal with a recent loved one's death

[xiamei]

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gitarong pod nako lubong oi..super love bya to nako..i still light candles sa iya lubongan sa amo garden til now

[YJOB]

naa ba ta menteryo sa mga pets diri cebu?

[pike]

tin sorry to hear about xiamei. Gosh naka cry jud ko reading your message above. i feel your pain tin, been there many times and i know how painful it is dealing with your best friend's death especially a dog. i can't share any advice to you coz i've been through what your dealing now. I know it hurts deeply to wake up each day knowing that she's not around anymore.

I guess the only thing that you can let go of her and the pain u feel is to feel the pain and cry if you feel like crying. don't supress what ur feeling right now. Sooner or later you'll be over about it and accept the fact that she's in heaven now looking down on you. for sure xiamei don't have any regrets on you being her master. you gave her everything and she's lucky to have you as her mommy and bestfriend.

so tin don't be in a hurry to lose the pain your feeling now and the mourning coz it's a normal thing for us dog lovers to feel when we lost our closiest companion.

just think that xiamei's resting now with no regrets at all coz she knows that what you did for her was for her own good and probably the spaying was not done right or whatever. don't blame yourself too much, okay.

take care!!!

[iskoLares]

unsay gipaspay?.. unsa juy nahitabo ni xiamei?.. tsk tsk tsk..

[xiamei]

btaw pike?? sakit mangod kaayo..til now i get nightmares at night with her crying in pain during the process and...well...sakit gyud kaau..i wished wala nalang nako gipasapy. i should have just let her have puppies..maybe daghan nata kog xiameis ron instead of losing her

I still see her everywhere..everywhere i go, mofollow mangod cya..kana gani mowork ko padung na paluoy2x gyud na iya nawng kahibaw mana cya na work ko and d cya pwede mokuyog otherwise kuyog mana nako bsan asa kuyog gani na nako sa esters kay magpapalit ug ice cream..she really loves ice cream esp vanilla..we went gud to esters and i let her choose between vanilla and mango, vanilla gyud iya gichoose..pinalingi2x pa cya na mura mopili then after i put down the mango and got ube and let her choose between ube and vanilla. vanilla gihapon..after several minutes of looking at one ice cream to another, she jumped up and touched her nose sa vanilla so i guess vanilla gyud iya hehe hahay..gasakit gyud akng heart..i miss her so much..

cya rapod akng dog nakitan na magtotoy..everynight before sleeping, adto na cya among laundry basket and choosing one of mine, iya na kuhaon and ibring sa iya bed and then iya ithumb suck..i really miss her so much

xiamei sucking on my laundry:
[img width=500 height=375]http://i125.photobucket.com/albums/p78/xiamei/12132006520.jpg[/img]

[tsikay101]

where did u get her spayed? complications in the process?? ive always thought it was a safe procedure...

our condolences...