ex boyfriend who is still my friend

[vahnhelsing]

bow down na kos cebuano oi. wa na koy ikasukol. naa man unta mi subject ana sa masscom pero murag wa koy mkat-onan...

siguro sad bro noh nga ang mga influential women nga mga role model nako, grabeh pud ka career-driven.

sort of picky man ko. kung physical attributes, mada ra nag sabot. lol pero kung other aspects, anha ko picky. usa jud ana ganahan kog laki nga nindot ug smart kaistorya. especially kung books nay storyaan. hehe di pud ko ganahan naay bisyo.

pangitaonon lageh kaayo. )

aw unsa man eninglison ta ni? (matay sunggo akong agi ani dah) hahaha...

many of those who are successful in their careers, miss something that is worthwhile.
when you get to invest too much of your time with your work you forget the little
things that gives us happiness.. (naahat akong tinagoan pagawas )

daghan pa laki nga lantip kaistorya, pero depende man sad jud gud ni, maayo ug
parehas jud mog ganahan sa kinabuhi tukion. Murag taas taas jud kag requirements dah,
hinoon ayaw pagpakawala sa paglaom may mga binuhat nga makatupong o makalabaw
pa sa imong gipangita ug gihandum pero dako sad ang purohan nga gipaninguha ug lain..

[writers_gon_write]

@groogie75 haha nope. i'm not one of them. i go with my family. kay kung ako lang, di siguro ko musimba. hehe

@MollyMillions i knew it. and i always respect a female's perspective on womanly issues.

@vahnhelsing haha ok ra oi. lingaw gani kaayo kos imong cebuano. wa lang jud koy ikasukol nga lawm pud nga cebuano.

[spike412]

picture dayon ts para amo makita ngano choosy and picky ka.. heheh bae ko ha

[groogie75]

agree ko ana

[Scott Bernard]

Anyways... mao rato among advice TS.

Ikaw ra gehapon masakitan kung sige ka ug kuyog2x sa imong ex bisan dili na kamo unya naapa kay feelings niya and ma further develop paka niya.

Tragic downfall jud na.

[writers_gon_write]

@spike412 huh? ana diay nah? I don't think it's a physical thing... it's more of a psychological perspective, being picky that is.

but anyway, if it is... di man ko ingon gwapa kaayo like goddess-like kind. but di sad ko opposite ana. like I said on my previous reply, I'm not much of a bad egg myself. probably a bit short in height pero I'm not insecure with it or whatever... lol

[writers_gon_write]

uh... wa man ko naka-feel nga nasakitan ko. I'm genuinely happy ra pud for him. even told him to try and not to fail this time. hehe

and wa ra man koy na-feel anything romantic niya. another thing siguro kay he's just one of my very few close guy friends... ambot if this is true to other girls but there are just some things and problems which are better said and heard by a male's perspective...

as in I only have few guy friends because (sorry sa mga lalaki diri) dali ra ko mairita sa male species esp. kung magstorya kog serious ug tinuod nya tubagon ra kog binuang. lol

mao ra pud na akong reason nga comfortable ra ko niya. like I said sad on my previous reply, before naging kami, friends jud mi daan. the same level of friendship that we have now. kumbaga karon, things are just where it used to be.

Anyways... mao rato among advice TS.

Ikaw ra gehapon masakitan kung sige ka ug kuyog2x sa imong ex bisan dili na kamo unya naapa kay feelings niya and ma further develop paka niya.

Tragic downfall jud na.

[Scott Bernard]

So unsa man imong problema if happy ka sa imong situation karon? Do you need an advice or nagpa hungaw langka sa imong gebati?

Naa man gud time, mo deny ta sa atong nakita ug atong na feel... Anyways, if happy ka niya then that's nice.

Time will come... nga manginahanglan ka niya as a friend or more... pero wala siya kay dili naka niya priority kay naa man siya GF, or in the near future a wife and a family. You cannot depend on him alone... kay dili na siya permanente naa nimo.

[jeff_bonz59]

@TS I think you still haven't move on with your 'friend'

you need to explore outside of your 'circle' and meet new friends beyond your comfort zone... I mean, I think the fact that your comfortable going out with him (your ex), means that you hate taking risk to venture out, in knowing other people more.. Other people that might spark some interests on your life as well.

Take a big leap..get to know other friends and welcome them up into your life.... the more friends you have, the more you tend not to bend back to just the one you know before.... *if you know what I mean...

[Scott Bernard]

OR basin dili lang jud ka mo sulti, mo share or mo admit nga na kuha na sa imong ex-BF ang BANDERA... mao nga pilit lang gehapon ka niya.