
Originally Posted by
quirkychinita
some women really dont say things na naa sa ilang huna huna kay basig sauna i confront ka niya nya gibalewala ra siguro nimu or maybe she just want you to realize something na obvious na kaayo TS.
naay gitawag na tagam.
TS, kapila na ba mo nag away? How did you resolve it?
How long na ba sya "off" nimu?
and so far what have you both achieved in your 8 years of relatuionship? are you getting something out of it? Have you been planning your future?
If I were a woman, I would question why after 8 years wa pay nahitabo namu na asenso or bisan plano man lang.
No woman is NOT scared of risking her everything, emotionally, financially, physically with a guy she's been loving for 8 years.
Maybe it's the commitment she wanted. Maybe she just want marriage but is afraid to ask kay traditionally, the guy has to ask or maybe even beg for it. She wants to give her everything and forever to the guy who'd give his last name niya. Kay maybe she's thinking "Why would I exert much effort to a guy I have no future with? Why risk my own when he can't even risk his?"
Maybe you have done something that hurt her... and simply refused to understand how she felt and even never bothered to apologize... Pagpaubos ug pride gamay. remember, the person you love CHANGES when you start to HURT him/her.
Or maybe..... she just fell out of love with you for so many reasons.... 8 years na na-accumulate and you failed to notice it.
but then it seemed like u did everything you can kay gagukod naman kaha ka. Try asking her directly if she still love you and if she wants to break up na. Cuz of the things you've done to hurt her in the past.
Maybe she just can't stand your habits and your inner monsters that once came out and show up on her. You don't want to live with a wife who can't stand you. Mag away ra mo ana pirmi. You can't even exert effort to change kay that's so not you... you dont want a fake relationship.
TS think about it.....
Everything is up to you....
Pag may gusto, maraming paraan, pag AYAW may dahilan.