UnsaY BaTi Sa SobRa Ka Bo-Otan? TurN-Off DiaY JuD Na? :-(

[jbass]

Di pud ui.. Dpende ra jud na.. Naay uban gud nga ganahan buotan, unya ang uban ganhan sya maginoo pero mejo bastos..

I had drinks with my friends last night. And LOVE has always been the staple of every drinking sessions, right? Then I became the hotseat since most of my friends are married and have gfs/bfs. They have all these conclusions that I'm too picky, too much of a workaholic and even too good -- all these reasons why I am still single.

What didn't sit well on me is the last remark,

"Bootan ra kaayo ka Bey. Ma-guilty magbinoang nimo ang laki nimo mao na dili nalang sila nimo."

"Pag minaldita lageh, tan-awa, dili ka buwi-an."

Toinks!

Ing-ana diay na? all the while I thought that's the usual benchmark for anyone if they are searching for their possible mates... At the back of my mind, I was asking who in the right mind would want for a really mean partner?

Or could I be wrong? what do you think guys? Are my friends right?

Turn-off jud ang bootan?

[peesoot]

dili na maka turn-off ang boutan pero mas nindot siguro kung naay pagka maldita aron sab ma-challenge sila mao sab na gi ingon sa akong master..

[sandy2007]

TS, that's a really stupid way of putting things. don't anything mislead you to doing something stupid as well. if I had a partner, (if lng hap..hahaha) i'd want him to be as every bit faithful as I will be to him.

it's not being too kind that's a turn-off. it's the sense that boys just wanna have fun before settling down. yeah, right. settling down at the age of 80 years old, that is.

[THE KID]

TS, that's a really stupid way of putting things. don't anything mislead you to doing something stupid as well. if I had a partner, (if lng hap..hahaha) i'd want him to be as every bit faithful as I will be to him.

it's not being too kind that's a turn-off. it's the sense that boys just wanna have fun before settling down. yeah, right. settling down at the age of 80 years old, that is.

ikaw na miss..may i have your number?

[sandy2007]

ikaw na miss..may i have your number?

may I have you number jd dayn? hehehe.

[Fafnir]

Naay tawag nga sobra kabuotan ang most likely pasabot kanang kulang sa assertiveness or confidence. kusog kau "sorry kau ha"...good manners is good manners, pero kung walay sense of leadership or courage ang lalaki, mao nay turn-off sa most nga babaye -at least sa akong opinion.

[MollyMillions]

Depende ra gyd na sa preference sa individual.

[volatile8]

yeah, botilya garapa...

[papasilo]

Picky lang gyud siguro ka sis.

Naa sad ko kaila older nako.. mostly sa iyang circle of friends married. Siya NBSB pero gwapa gyud kayu man sya and "BUOTAN" as mentioned at this thread...,
daghan nagkagusto niya (usa nako adto even +10) pa siya haha.. Naa me mga intimate moments.. pero afterwards
try na nako og go beyond.

MO LIKAY LIKAY Na. karon managad nalng kung maayu og favor.. Murag na daot
na gyud siya sa pag-sge og tan-aw ni JUN PYO. .. haha.. Sorry sorry ako namn noon problema akong na sturya. haha

Anyways kanang magparamdam sad nimo tagae og chance basin mao nana ang prince charming nmo.

[enimavix]

Ang naka disadvantage aning mga buotan sama nako kai maka masa nga taw. "Uber-Friendly." And people might get the wrong point when seen with other friends kai tuod lage but.an kaayo og personality maoy hinungdan sa selos. Selos leads to away. Away leads to break-up. Break-up leads to depression. Depression leads to suicide and suicide is death. XD

In other words, deadly keu ng mga but.an nga person.