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buwagi TS BUWAGI! mangamong ta

[choco.cheese]

unsaon pag change ug section ani? Sorry mga master..


duha nami ka tuig ani wa pagyud nako hilabti!
(kay kani lageng nag tarong naka pag abot sa usa ka relasyon!)

Basin madala rani ug heart to heart talk.. mao siguro ingun ani iyang batasan kay tungod nag dako siya nga pirmi ra siya kasuk'an. (anak man gud siya sa gawas) sa ilang family outcast gyud siya. pirmi ra gina look down.. ingun ana gyud iyang gi dak'an. poor pangga..

[pirehro]

Bro, una nimo buhaton kay e-realize na imong thread kay naa sa sayop na section, next time kay mag think naka before posting. But kasabot rami kay basin na excited raka maka kuha ug tambag mao ni post dayon ka hehehe
diri diay ang saktong section: "Love is..."

sunod nimo buhaton kay kay basahon akong opinion:

ana jud na ang uban babae, libog, usahay sensitive, usahay needy, usahay unaware of their manipulative skills, etc...

sometimes murag nahog ra na dali raka ma manipulate, most of the time naa nila ang upper hand so ma under ka. pero depende rajud na sa inyong batasan and kung gi unsa nimo/ninyo pag handle inyong relationship since sa sugod.
like:
-imo ra siya gi spoiled
-imo ra gi tolerate tanan iya gi buhat na medyo dili ka comportable or wala ka nalipay
-imo ra gipalabi iyang story (explantion) kesa imong part of the story (in cases mag away mo or mag lalis over something)
- and daghan pa factors that made your situation/relationship what it is today

so its either you'll stand up and change that (depende, pero usahay medyo lisod usbon kung ana jud siya pagkatao)
or
you'll just accept that! hehehe


ang buhaton nako if ingon ana ako gf:

mangita ko ug good timing then ako siya hinay hinayan ug sturya and epasabot kung unsa iyang ginabuhat nako (medyo prankahan) and how i feel about it and my opinion, but in a nice calm way if ever di pa kaayo worse.



Out of Topic ( pwede na ni dili basahon )

for me... those who are in a relationship doesn't have the right to complain, kay kung mag uyab2 gani ka, mura ranag ni hatag ka ug dakong pagsalig and that's like taking a huge risk by giving someone a gun and hoping he/she wont pull the trigger and shoot your heart and that could happen anytime it has its ups an downs but that's what you signed up for right? so deal with it, and never comlpain. or just end it and move along.

in short, ayaw nalang pag uyab2 kung di ka sigurado and kung di sad ka ganahan or willing masakitan/magproblema

I'm not really an expert. I'm just kinda venting out. kay wala lang, feel lang nako hahaha. my post may sound a bit bitter but this just my opinion and based on experience

my last relationship was like this before, but ako gihapon gipadayon and gi fight. but it ended up like I was the Culprit and she was the Heroine but that's her version of the story. na bali jud hahaha. tragic really

just sharing.

Good luck bro
and
Cheers!