The story behind the Groom and the Wedding Singer!

[iMallalone29]

I don't know you personally sis but I believe this isn't fair to your partner.
It's ok to reminisce or share stories of your ex but blow-by-blow account?

That's way too much...
knowing you have a man you go home to at the end of the day.


Just my two cents.

I told him already about everything. And even during the wedding.. All the texts, all the conversations.. We already talked about it. He even told me, and I quote,

"I trusted ever since.. I know dili na ka musugot na mubalik siya nimo.. It has been tested and proven.. Ngano man diay kung imong i-post? I don't mind.. Go Ahead.."

[beyee]

I told him already about everything. And even during the wedding.. All the texts, all the conversations.. We already talked about it. He even told me, and I quote,

"I trusted ever since.. I know dili na ka musugot na mubalik siya nimo.. It has been tested and proven.. Ngano man diay kung imong i-post? I don't mind.. Go Ahead.."

I got your point, but as a partner, you should respect what you have now
and not dwell on what you used to have sis.

I understand your partner is telling all those things because he wants you
to be happy and I applaud for him for that. Not everyday you get to have
a very cool partner. However what you're doing now is totally not cool.

Have some respect for your relationship... Your family.

[iMallalone29]

I'm sorry if some were offended by this..

I can just edit it though...

I know that my story was made longer because of too much details.. I'm sorry for that..

[laxxx]

Hi ts.. Gi follow ko imo stories starting from the wedding til this thread.. Yes I agree medyo insensitive sad kaning thread pra sa partner nimo ron.. Although he said it's okay with him, I mean common sense nalang natin dba na ofcourse it's not okay na atong partner murag eager to tell his/her story with his/her previous one.. let's put ourselves in their shoes kumbaga.. But I also get ur point of sharing this one sis.. sturya2 rba diri istorya.. daghan nka subaybay sa imo story.

[beyee]

You don't have to apologize to us sis.

Sometimes we get too overwhelmed with our emotions that we end up doing
things not knowing that we have hurt the people whom we love and who love
us even more ~ no matter what they convince you that it's okay but still they
are human, too and with emotions.

Just be sensitive lang sis

Instead of exhausting all your efforts on recounting everything online, utilize all
these energy and emotions to your family, that's even more rewarding since you
get hugs and kisses in the end... opening up the past won't get you nothing... it
won't even set you free, it will only cripple you to move on.

[Passport]

to those who find this story chipping away at the privacy of the groom, you may be right. but please be smart enough to be aware that the ts has every right to tell her story from her vantage point. i can feel the sincerity of the author and behind the words, are the honest emotions she has invested with pain and a lot of salty tears.

this is her memoirs of an event...a very memorable event in her life. she took efforts to share it with us. it is not mere istorya to me.. but a pouring of emotions otherwise left fermenting in the depths of her soul.
@iMallalone29, the first post was written in a beautiful literary style, you should have not removed it for the sake of brevity, amidst the cries of the croaking frogs soaked in torrential rains.

[beyee]

She has every right, I agree with that.
Pero, ibutang pod sa lugar...

She has to think of others' feelings as well.
The mere thought that she's yapping about it blow-by-blow
is downright insensitive to her partner. Have a heart naman.

If I were in the partner's shoes right now, I'll end up thinking,

"Why is she with me when her heart and mind are still on the
other guy? She may be committed to me but do I really have
her totally in words and actions?"

Mapalaki or babae, if partner na nimo nya ing-ani imo pares,
dili ba ka mainsulto?

[judge3ni]

sayang.. i wasn't able to read it.. i'll just wait for the edited one then..

[Passport]

well, there will always be critics to anything.. whether it is a work of literature, a work of art.. or even a glass of native wine called bahal..

a fatwa was even issued for salman rushdie for his work. people sometimes impose on others their concept of "unsay naa sa lugar"

sayang.. i wasn't able to read it.. i'll just wait for the edited one then..

because the Jews were shouting... crucify!

[laxxx]

She has every right, I agree with that.
Pero, ibutang pod sa lugar...

She has to think of others' feelings as well.
The mere thought that she's yapping about it blow-by-blow
is downright insensitive to her partner. Have a heart naman.

@lifeisbeyeeutiful, agree. Wala naman tayong sinabing masama tong thread nya. Point is, just be a little bit more sensitive. Thats all.

Murag grabe gud defend ni @Passport. "croaking frogs soaked in torrential rains" agad? No one's saying ts is doing something bad ui. Just giving her insights on how her fiancè would feel. Period.