Mag Family Bonding With The Kids Kuyog ang New Girlfriend/Boyfriend

[hanzheyteta]

depende sa sabot gyud na.... pero if bulag na gyud ang guy ug ang mommy sa kids.... well... I can;t say it's wrong pero sakit na sa buot sa mom....

But im pretty sure when the kids grow up, they will understand.

I've seen this scenario two times in my lifetime... trust me, they will understand in the long run... when they grow up!

yes, i'm sure they will but at this stage it's just not right. son was even asking why naay churva iyang dad. hahahaha awp nganga lang pud ko.

but in due time... when they are older, makasabot ra sila and they will learn the lessons

[ohohoy]

ansaveh?

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aw, dli pde mangayo? masyadong strict si kuya.

okay, peace

[quirkychinita]

yes, i'm sure they will but at this stage it's just not right. son was even asking why naay churva iyang dad. hahahaha awp nganga lang pud ko.

but in due time... when they are older, makasabot ra sila and they will learn the lessons

maybe the dad and the kids need to know how you felt about it..... That way it'll be much easier to understand.

[Hammer_and_Sickle]

sus, kung ako pa siguro naa sa situation nimo ts, ako ng bugno-on bayhana. hahahaha

[hanzheyteta]

you know what? if you're mature enough and you know how to value your family, dili na kailangan storyaan unsay dapat buhaton. but when you're selfish and you only think of your own fleeting happiness, then of course spoonfeed. but i get it, sometimes our rights and wrongs are just not the same.

[yvonne6]

above all, the feelings of the kids and pinaka importante. ang kapaet man gud aning mga mature na kunohay, sila ang mo assume nga "kids will understand" without even taking the time to talk to their kids and know how they feel about things. you can start by asking your children, how would u feel if dadi would have a new girlfriend? kung ang tubag sa imong anak, no! i dont want you to have a new gf, si mami lang among gusto! it only means your kids are not yet on the right age to understand you want to move on. dont be too selfish, ayaw pud pagdali. ug dili gyud ka gusto masakitan imong anak, keep it to yourself na lang sa. and your new gf should not pressure you nga ipa ila2 dayun siya sa imong mga anak. ive been into this situation, pero ako ang bata niadto, and i always fantasized that my mom and dad will get back together until naabot ko sa edad na nadawat na nako that they will never be together again. and now, im into the same situation kay nagbuwag mi sa dad sa akong anak and even if his dad is living in with another woman, wala nako gi share akong anak nila kay inspite nga gubot mi sa new gf, walay maternal instincts ang babay kay she left her own child to live with my ex. cant trust someone like that but thats another story. para nako, dili pa jud right time. masakitan lang mga bata

[hanzheyteta]

i totally agree sis @yvonne6. there was a time when i teased my son what if mommy's got a new boyfriend and he was totally vehement about it. he said he'd rather see his mom and dad get back together and that's coming from a 5yr old. so i never brought it up again and then here comes the dad dragging along his new girlfriend... bummer

[vahnhelsing]

i think its wrong nga makig sood dayon ang uyab sa imong ex sa imong anak..
maybe delikadeza lang pod unta. unless both parties naka move on na. kana kun nakamove
on na jud.. lisod man ni ingon ani nga situation gud, ang mga bata ang maapektohan ani.
apektohan man gani ka ts sah? wala'y jelly feelings na diha?

[hanzheyteta]

@vahnhelsing hahaha, way uso jelly. nabastosan? sobra pa.

[hanzheyteta]

naa ko kaila nga even if dili sila together, but they find time to go to church with the kids... dinner with the kids... bahalag wala sila storyaay... nice move... hopefully, makaabot ra mi ana nga point.