IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU

[nymnym]

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i agree..file for sexual harassment. just because he's the boss doesn't mean that he can treat you like that. Report to HK, resign and file for sexual harassment.
you can always get a job somewhere else. and if it happens again then look for another.
never put yourself down and allow them to treat you like that and give in to what the guy wants just because he's your boss....

and by the way, dili na practical to take up an offer like that. id like to say its just downright......fill in the blanks nalang

aye aye.. unless the hr is controlled by the boss (which may be possible. but HR usually is independent)

[kalaboso]

Guys:

how do you collate or document a sexual harrasment evidence? lure your BOSS to kiss you and record it via a digicam? or put a videocam near you and entice your boss to get near you so you can capture his advances?... is'nt it fabrication already?

or ask your officemate to testify against your BOSS?

I beliv this legislation has a lot of gray areas.

and then what? in the end you got your pride back & you sent someone's family to the street?

[nymnym]

Guys:

how do you collate or document a sexual harrasment evidence? lure your BOSS to kiss you and record it via a digicam? or put a videocam near you and entice your boss to get near you so you can capture his advances?... is'nt it fabrication already?

or ask your officemate to testify against your BOSS?

I beliv this legislation has a lot of gray areas.

and then what? in the end you got your pride back & you sent someone's family to the street?

whatever happened to correcting what is wrong?
so if this goes on, that girl won't be the first one who's going to be harassed. and the boss would do it over and over and over cause "that" girl just let the issue go the first time.

[kalaboso]

nymnym:

this is definitely un-acceptable for you. correct? what if your Boss looks like BRAD PITT? dashing, debonaire, hunk who has a crush on you too.

what would be your reaction this time?

[Ms.Beau]

omad:

lets face it.... in the real world it is a jungle out there.

are you employed? so perhaps you have a first hand experiences of cruelty in the employement world. if not then this is pointless!

you see , employment is a RAT RACE. who ever gets out first off the bucket full of butter WINS.

I am not the BOSS or the person hiding behind the "BOSS". I am just trying to point out here that, this incidence really happens and there are rampant immorality happening in the work places for a bottomline.

becoz at the end of the day it is the BOTTOMLINE that matters. would'nt you agree?

nah mao lage...immorality for the bottomline. in other words, you get out of the bucket full of butter but you are still a...RAT!

kalaboso, at the end of the day, what matters is YOU. your life, your health, your peace of mind, your family, your reputation, your conscience.

it's a matter of paradigm. if all you think about is the world being a rat race, then a rat will what you become. but the world is not that evil, there are still great places to work in. there are good bosses. there are companies that espouse the values of integrity and professionalism. and you can even start that kind of company yourself.

and i'd like to point out also that:

well, pakipot lang na ang employee.... perhaps she is just asking for more.... instead of just plain promotion.... I am thinking there is more to the "cold shoulder thingie" .... she is actually use this at her advantage... which is what women are doing to guys these days...

hello! really? what made you ASSUME that? let me tell you. there is nothing more to the cold shoulder thingie than a plain NO. you want to promote her? why promote someone who will ask for a promotion in the bedroom than in the boardroom? that's such a STUPID management decision, let me tell you. no, that is just a RATIONALIZATION of the boss's bad intentions. harrassment. powerplay. TSK!

whoever that boss is, he should be careful. he is soooooo dispensable.

[Ms.Beau]

nymnym:

this is definitely un-acceptable for you. correct? what if your Boss looks like BRAD PITT? dashing, debonaire, hunk who has a crush on you too.
what would be your reaction this time?

oops why change the situation all of a sudden? the above is a case of mutual attraction, far from your original situation.

let's go back to that one. basically the situation is that the boss keeps on harrassing the female employee thinking that she could just be plain "pakipot" and doing it to her advantage. and now a little twist: the boss looks like brad pitt.

now, it's sooooo possible no one could be attracted to a brad pitt lookalike nga bogo. why, if he were ajny smarter, he could just charm a lady without resorting to powerplay. duh. i just can't imagine a desperate brad lolz. feeling brad pitt siguro ang boss sa? lolz. oh well, he is still sssoooooooo dispensable. mo apil nalang kaha siya ug PBB or unsa ba kay akoy puli niya. duh.

[nymnym]

nymnym:

this is definitely un-acceptable for you. correct? what if your Boss looks like BRAD PITT? dashing, debonaire, hunk who has a crush on you too.

what would be your reaction this time?

it's EXTREMELY unacceptable. i thank god that i've never undergone that kind of harrasment. nyhoo, if my boss looks like brad pitt, it's would always be up to me whether i file or not. so the point is, whether i liked what he did or not. apparantly, im a girl who doesn't like unwanted proposals. literally, i dont like brad pitt. val kilmer is more luscious. back to the topic, this is actually a two-way story. if the girl doesnt like what the boss is doing, then she should file for sexual harrasment, and if she did, there's actually no sense in posting the story.

[kalaboso]

WHEW! Ms. Beau.

I guess you are trying to bring-out the value of VALUES here. I salute you for being prime & proper...whatever! but this is a thing in the libraries. it only exist in the BOOKs. I beliv that every one of us has its own dark secrets!! we may not bring it out in the open coz we are afraid of being excumunicated or considered as outcast in the society but the the fact remains the same that somewhere sometime in our lives we made hard decisions and the BOTTOMLINE is always part of that considerations.

did you? or you were born in a silver platter?

I beliv women are the only creatures who says one thing and does another thing. completely 180 degress opposite.

[Ms.Beau]

I beliv women are the only creatures who says one thing and does another thing. completely 180 degress opposite.

tsk. another biased rationalization to justify bad behavior. do you have more coming? peace!

don't complicate your life, bro. a NO is a NO and a YES is a YES.

if that's not enough, a no is a no is a no is a no is a no. peace!

[nymnym]

now that is incredibly unfair. the story was as simple as the boss harassing his workmate. what could be more complicated than that??