HELP PLS!! Kinsa naa experience sa annulment?

[high_heels]

Hi TS,

Let me bring a different angle to your annulment case.

What is the ground for the annulment? If its psychological incapacity, then you have two scenarios here.

Scenario 1: Do NOT Contest

For you the case to proceed, it needs probable cause. Coming from that, tanang BATI, MAOT, NGIL-AD nga storya and accusations are pointed at you. All the nasty details of your marriage will be put in court. So my question to you, are you willing to be the "BAD GUY" in that legal battle?

The Good side to this is what most people do, they will not show up during court trials to speed things up and eventually get yourself annulled should the court sees that it is in fact you who is at fault.

Granting na ma annulled ka under that accusation, that record in court becomes a public document. Therefore, if anyone can do a background check on you, or on the later part of your life something comes up that your "personality" is gauged to your disadvantage. That annulment document and final decision can be presented against you.

Ang akoa lang sad ika add TS, babaye raba ka. So are you willing to be the culprit? The unfit wife? The unfit mother?

SCENARIO 2: Contested Response

It means, that you are DENYING all accusations that are pointed against you. And that, you are fighting your claim that you are NOT the person at fault for the failure of your relationship. The downside is, that means you need to show up in court to defend yourself. The challenging part if you take this route is that it will take a few years for your case to be annulled because the court will decide based on your exhusbands testimony and yours kung kinsa gyuy sad-an ninyo duha.

Now the end result if you take scenario 2 are these:

1. If the court finds out through testimonies and evidences nga his accusations are false or has no bearing and that he is actually the one who is at fault, the accusations of your exhubby will be reversed favoring the annullment to your advantage. It means, siya ang BATI, MAOT, NGIL-AD ninyong duha.

2. Granting that the court will say, kamong duha ang sad-an its either ma acquit ang inyong case and you both remain married. But that gives you an opportunity to file for an annulment case later on which accusations will be pointed against him nasad dili na nimo.

For me lang sad personally, I took the hard and long route, and that is through a contested case. Kay bisag akong bana ang ni gasto for the annulment the fact that I know he is the one nga BATI, MAOT, NGIL-AD by being an irresponsible father and having a mistress, I will not allow a legal and public document to say that ako ang sad-an namong duha. In the end, the battle is within you, and I would advise you to ask yourself which end result do you want to be in. If you are willing to sacrifice your name for the sake of an easy route to closure BUT with your name and person forever stained. Or you take the longer route and fight for the truth which frees you from any BAD reputation that is being pointed at you.

[damunchi]

unsa mn jud imu gusto, ma annul ang kasal ninyo or dili?

[IamDiablo]

consult na lang sa abogado. pero kana pud abogado na imo kaila or ok modala sa ani na mga kaso.

kung gusto jud nmo na annul inyo kasal, hala appear na lang mo sa court para ma settle na nah.

dali lang man ang annulment kaso gasto lang jud cya. andam lang mga at least 200k para ana or mosobra pa. sa situation ni TS na iya bana man nagstart sa annulment procedure. ang question willing ka ba TS na ma annul inyo kasal? kung willing ka, hala settle everything cguro dha na lang magka complicate if naa mo mga properties and ang mga bata. if naa ka anak then below 7 or 8 years old (not sure sa age ha) sa imo sah ang mga anak ninyo pero kung lapas ana na age lahi na pud nah na proceedings.

pero kung ikaw pud gusto ma annul ang kasal dali ra na a few hearings lang nah cya human na dayon. basta abtik lang ang abogado. hehehehe. god bless.

[incognito]

Hi TS,

Let me bring a different angle to your annulment case.

What is the ground for the annulment? If its psychological incapacity, then you have two scenarios here.

Scenario 1: Do NOT Contest

For you the case to proceed, it needs probable cause. Coming from that, tanang BATI, MAOT, NGIL-AD nga storya and accusations are pointed at you. All the nasty details of your marriage will be put in court. So my question to you, are you willing to be the "BAD GUY" in that legal battle?

The Good side to this is what most people do, they will not show up during court trials to speed things up and eventually get yourself annulled should the court sees that it is in fact you who is at fault.

Granting na ma annulled ka under that accusation, that record in court becomes a public document. Therefore, if anyone can do a background check on you, or on the later part of your life something comes up that your "personality" is gauged to your disadvantage. That annulment document and final decision can be presented against you.

Ang akoa lang sad ika add TS, babaye raba ka. So are you willing to be the culprit? The unfit wife? The unfit mother?

For me lang sad personally, I took the hard and long route, and that is through a contested case. Kay bisag akong bana ang ni gasto for the annulment the fact that I know he is the one nga BATI, MAOT, NGIL-AD by being an irresponsible father and having a mistress, I will not allow a legal and public document to say that ako ang sad-an namong duha. In the end, the battle is within you, and I would advise you to ask yourself which end result do you want to be in. If you are willing to sacrifice your name for the sake of an easy route to closure BUT with your name and person forever stained. Or you take the longer route and fight for the truth which frees you from any BAD reputation that is being pointed at you.

Hi, sis. thanks for taking the time sa pagreply. I'm aware na man sa consequences if dili nako i-contest ang annulment. And yes, I'm willing na lang to be the bad guy in the story. I just want this mess over and done with, and him out of my life for good. This ex-hubby, he's the type of person nga magsinamok pa jd everytime he feels like it. Wala lang jd ko nipatol sa iya pagsinamok kay I don't want to stoop down to his level. Right now, I'm so happy with my new family (finally!). I'm at the point na sa ako life nga I want to put an end na sa tanan niya pagsinamok...bahala unsa na iya ipanulti. Basta I know in my heart [and my partner knows] that I'm not the person nga gipanulti ani nga ex.

Besides, if ever ako icontest (though I have no plan to delay the trial pa if I'd do so), financially, dili pa nako kaya karon. I kept on asking God for guidance about ani. Regardless sa iya mga accusations, I'm at peace. Being the "bad guy" is the sweeter part of the deal compared to staying married to him and still having his last name.

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unsa mn jud imu gusto, ma annul ang kasal ninyo or dili?

Ma-annul gud.

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consult na lang sa abogado. pero kana pud abogado na imo kaila or ok modala sa ani na mga kaso.

kung gusto jud nmo na annul inyo kasal, hala appear na lang mo sa court para ma settle na nah.

dali lang man ang annulment kaso gasto lang jud cya. andam lang mga at least 200k para ana or mosobra pa. sa situation ni TS na iya bana man nagstart sa annulment procedure. ang question willing ka ba TS na ma annul inyo kasal? kung willing ka, hala settle everything cguro dha na lang magka complicate if naa mo mga properties and ang mga bata. if naa ka anak then below 7 or 8 years old (not sure sa age ha) sa imo sah ang mga anak ninyo pero kung lapas ana na age lahi na pud nah na proceedings.

pero kung ikaw pud gusto ma annul ang kasal dali ra na a few hearings lang nah cya human na dayon. basta abtik lang ang abogado. hehehehe. god bless.

Thank God wala ra mi anak sa ex, that would have made things a lot more complicated than it already is. I have no inetion na mo show up sa court, bro. Siya man nagfile sa annulment, so let's just hope nga abtik iya lawyer para madali ni nga case. I pray to God nga mahuman na ni tanan this year para new year [2014], new life. God bless you, too.

[ohohoy]

TS same ra akoa advise sa uban, ayaw tungaha ang hearing para madali ang annulment..

[incognito]

TS same ra akoa advise sa uban, ayaw tungaha ang hearing para madali ang annulment..

late na reply, pero still, thanks @ohohoy sa advise.