Emotional Breakdown. Please help. :((

[MRS.TROUBLED]

Naa jud ko officemates sauna, pareho sila nga bi-polar and everytime mag away sila kai mag pisikalay jud. Nya kung ga ayo ang buot, grabe sad maka PDA..

Mao sad ako huna2x, basin naa sakit sa pangutok. Kung man gani, lisod raba kaayo na sila biya-an.

[R_sQuArEd]

@laxxx - i sent you a private message but u cant reply to my message. add mi in fb and ill chat with u. pareha ta kahimtang. it's just the other way around ky ako lalaki ang nagpakamartyr. i know u are an ilonggo judging from the way u write. im from negros occ., so i can go ahead and chat with u with ur dialect. my advice - follow beyee's advice even if u said it's harsh but accept the reality.

sa man ni mao ning pinakarecent? hehehe

[zHun]

so easy to say "let go" basta audience ra ta sa issue..

yup i know, dli jud sayon sa hintundan bro pero dli man gud pod ma linaw ang imong huna2x kung dli nimo e let go ang isa ka tao nga nag pasakit nimo..

kita man cguro tanan naka agi og mga break up..
naa rajud na nimo kung unsaon pag dala sa imong self sa ngana nga sitwasyon..

@laxxx - naa ra sa imo ang desisyon jud ts..always pray lang ts para malandagan ka og malinaw ang imong huna-huna...
t'care and God Bless..

[silentnuker]

wla na lagi update...hehehe...

[Missmary]

[QUOTE=lifeisbeyeeutiful;15470767]Please read everything I posted sis, I "helped" you in
looking at the big picture about your dilemma yet
you're going in a different direction.

Comfort? Doesn't giving you advices entail consoling?

Lifeisbeautiful, be gentle nga naman. This girl is hurting and she is looking for comfort and sympathy, not advise as such.

Laxx, believe me I know what you're going through because I'm going through something similar (break-up). It is very painful during the early days. However, in your situation right now, you won't heal because you still lived together. The best thing to do is not to co-habit. Clean break is the best. You can do it. It will just take time. If you don't see him or hear from him, in a month's time your pain won't be as intense. But it's getting over through the longing for the past that is the biggest problem. I must admit, that is also my problem. I kept going back to the past, looking back through the good times. And like you, my immediate family is overseas, so I'm basically alone here too

[beyee]

[QUOTE=Missmary;15493117]

Please read everything I posted sis, I "helped" you in
looking at the big picture about your dilemma yet
you're going in a different direction.

Comfort? Doesn't giving you advices entail consoling?

Lifeisbeautiful, be gentle nga naman. This girl is hurting and she is looking for comfort and sympathy, not advise as such.

Laxx, believe me I know what you're going through because I'm going through something similar (break-up). It is very painful during the early days. However, in your situation right now, you won't heal because you still lived together. The best thing to do is not to co-habit. Clean break is the best. You can do it. It will just take time. If you don't see him or hear from him, in a month's time your pain won't be as intense. But it's getting over through the longing for the past that is the biggest problem. I must admit, that is also my problem. I kept going back to the past, looking back through the good times. And like you, my immediate family is overseas, so I'm basically alone here too

If u have read all my previous posts about her dilemma sis,
I've been helpful in pointing out to her in all aspects. I've
been straightforward about it. She was even implying that
she was/is asking for advices from us in the forum.

I may be taken out of context as harsh or mean but if you
followed our conversation in the first few pages, the TS was
simply going around in circles. That explains my last two posts.

If still I have hurt her in a way, I apologize again but I am not
going to retract what I've advised her previously because I know
she needs to be "comforted" with the ugly truth rather than lies
or sugar-coated advices.

Real world is tough, whether we like it or not.

I won't explain myself further after this.

[Missmary]

[QUOTE=lifeisbeyeeutiful;15493276]

If u have read all my previous posts about her dilemma sis,
I've been helpful in pointing out to her in all aspects. I've
been straightforward about it. She was even implying that
she was/is asking for advices from us in the forum.

I may be taken out of context as harsh or mean but if you
followed our conversation in the first few pages, the TS was
simply going around in circles. That explains my last two posts.

If still I have hurt her in a way, I apologize again but I am not
going to retract what I've advised her previously because I know
she needs to be "comforted" with the ugly truth rather than lies
or sugar-coated advices.

Real world is tough, whether we like it or not.

I won't explain myself further after this.

[I[/I]

I know what you were saying sis and you are only trying to help. However, the TS is just looking for a sounding board, not advise as such. I am sure she knows what to do. However she is at the early stage of grieving and not really thinking clearly. At that stage, the emotion rules.

[beyee]

She was asking for advise. Please read again.

[longix]

he might have found another...especially in the new environment...

[Butitor]

@laxxx dili ko ganahan mo take sides ka mo bias nya. Ang ako masulti lang nasakitan ko ani ug na feel nako imo gibati kay mao ni hinungdan breakup sa ako ex. Bitter kaayo ko sauna kana gani murag ni fade ang feelings nimo sa imo GF pero love gihapon nimo ay di ko ka explain...murag ganahan ko time sa ako kaugalingon ..wala mi intention na magpasakit apan among action nakapasakit na diay...ana