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    Quote Originally Posted by princemike View Post
    correct... would you like ur bf to read emails of your friend's secrets? love problems? things your girl friends share with you only or things they trust you wouldnt share to anyone including your bf ofcors secret gud na ninyo sa imo friend... if you keep it secret manglood sad ur bf kay OPEN bya kuno mo sa TANAN... privacy is also important... you dont call that TRUST is you know all... you call it TRUST even though you dont know what his doing... whatever he's doing or watching or who he's with even if you dont know then that's TRUST.. if you keep on opening his things then you dont trust him....
    very well said... totally agree... dont keep ur partner in cage....

  2. #72
    okie ra man jud unta ang over protective pero lage ang naka pait lang nimo miss is wala kay salig sa imong bf..
    ayaw tok a imong bf ts kay kadugayan ana mawala nuon na xia nimo..
    dagae xia og privacy ts..
    og ikaw, salig sad niya para malinawon imong huna2x...
    ayaw nag cge og pang hilabot sa iyang fb accnt wui kay kana jud maka ingon nga maka huna2x ka og dli mao
    og mao sad na ang hinundan nga mag ayaw mo.. chil2x lang gud dra..if para imo jud ang isa ka tao para imo jud na..k rana ts..SALIG lang jud..

  3. #73
    Quote Originally Posted by quiksilver22 View Post
    in soon you will realize that privacy is really important in relationship... it doesn't mean nga naa kay gitagoan or ka chat or unsa bah... kay like me I have my own agenda in sending job application outside the country... and I dont want anyone to be part of that conversation. Its me who is responsible to decide or to accept a job offer or not.. if you allow your partner to read that email for sure the decision is not yours...its him... why make it two accounts sa twitter or any other networking sites? ngano need paman ka mag himo og imoha account? ang accnt nalang sa imo partner gamita... to think kamo man duha maka open ana...there is no point in making ur own account kung duha man gani mo ang maka access.... and by the way ang pagkatarong sa imong uyab dili ma base sa mga password sa networking sites... it doesnt mean nga kabalo naka sa tanan niya password kay tarong nana siya... ang ngano di ay mangayo mo sa password sa inyo partner? for the main reason "TRUST" wala kay salig mismo niya... kay if you do fully trust him bisan og unsa pana nga site iya sudlan it doesnt ring a bell on your part... no need to ask those passwords... LIFE isnt about feelings... Its about decision"
    As I've said, "lahi ra jud siguro mi". And why make 2 accounts? Kay bisag kahibaw mis tagsa2 namo ka password, doesn't mean we're snooping around each other's accounts. It's not like we check each other's stuff every single day. I just sometimes ask my guy to check my email for me. Labi nag wala ko sa balay or busy kaayo ko. And he asks the same thing too kung busy siya or wala siyay access sa internet.

    But my bad, I should NOT have said "unsa may problema ana??" ni TS or to anyone.
    Kay murag it applies only namong mag-uyab. Haha. Or at least to a very small percentage of couples lang siguro.
    If you feel it's a bad idea to exchange passwords with a significant other, then just don't do it. Basta kami sakong uyab, we're cool about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by princemike View Post
    correct... would you like ur bf to read emails of your friend's secrets? love problems? things your girl friends share with you only or things they trust you wouldnt share to anyone including your bf ofcors secret gud na ninyo sa imo friend... if you keep it secret manglood sad ur bf kay OPEN bya kuno mo sa TANAN... privacy is also important... you dont call that TRUST is you know all... you call it TRUST even though you dont know what his doing... whatever he's doing or watching or who he's with even if you dont know then that's TRUST.. if you keep on opening his things then you dont trust him....
    I got your point. But my friends will not send me an email kung naa silay sikreto. Mag chika mis personal oy

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    Quote Originally Posted by shayneyap View Post
    As I've said, "lahi ra jud siguro mi". And why make 2 accounts? Kay bisag kahibaw mis tagsa2 namo ka password, doesn't mean we're snooping around each other's accounts. It's not like we check each other's stuff every single day. I just sometimes ask my guy to check my email for me. Labi nag wala ko sa balay or busy kaayo ko. And he asks the same thing too kung busy siya or wala siyay access sa internet.

    But my bad, I should NOT have said "unsa may problema ana??" ni TS or to anyone.
    Kay murag it applies only namong mag-uyab. Haha. Or at least to a very small percentage of couples lang siguro.
    If you feel it's a bad idea to exchange passwords with a significant other, then just don't do it. Basta kami sakong uyab, we're cool about it.

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    I got your point. But my friends will not send me an email kung naa silay sikreto. Mag chika mis personal oy
    hahaha! mao2... hehehe! well, if dili lng email... nanghid ka lakaw mo with a particular friend then didto cya ni-ingon sa iya secret... pagkita nimo sa imo bf ask imo bf unsa inyo topic, either you'll say different things (wa labot sa secret) which is tantamount to lying also (hehehe) or say girl stuff (magduda na u bf noon) because naanad namo na wa moi privacy... hehehe!

    but hope forever mo ing-ana... thats a really nice and perfect set up as a couple (though its very rare in this imperfect world) I salute you and your bf! keep it up... i'll be praying di mo machange atleast dili pa mainstinct ang ingna na mga tao...

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    unconditional Trust is hard gyud... unconditional love makita man ni (very doable) but Trust thats unconditional is very rare and hard simply because we are human (not that we blame it to being human always)... but being human there is always doubt and negativity (not always but there are times it comes out of us without us knowing) just like the example.

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    ako mag jelly man pud ko.. pero ako siya e fight.., maka destroy man gud na sa relationship TS...

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    Quote Originally Posted by fotam View Post
    ako mag jelly man pud ko.. pero ako siya e fight.., maka destroy man gud na sa relationship TS...
    mas sayon man gud daw dakpon ang manok nga gihiktan.. putli og kamot ang mudakop..hehehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by princemike View Post
    unconditional Trust is hard gyud... unconditional love makita man ni (very doable) but Trust thats unconditional is very rare and hard simply because we are human (not that we blame it to being human always)... but being human there is always doubt and negativity (not always but there are times it comes out of us without us knowing) just like the example.
    BF (Unconditional Love) + GF (Unconditional Love) = Unconditional Trust

    BUT


    GF (Unconditional Love) + BF (50/50 Love) = GF (Insecurity) = GF (Lack of Trust)

  8. #78
    Quote Originally Posted by lescraman View Post
    insecure ka sis..
    i totally agree with you sis..

    Quote Originally Posted by pau-pau View Post
    Hi istoryans,
    i really need your advice..


    naa ko bf, and we are now 1 year and 7 months..
    i know and i admit, over protective jud ko sa ako uyab, and vice versa..
    we have all the access sa tanan accounts namu, ei. facebook,g+,skype and more..
    ala man meh problem at first, we both understand nganu over protective meh sa usag usa..
    dili man sa paghinambog pero arangan meh ug mga nawng that's why dali rah maka attract ug lain taw..
    but there was a time nga na find out namu nga iya best friend nga na close nsad jud nako ug maayo, naibog diya niya..
    didtu nag sugod nga ni grabeh nako ka over protective niya..every day nako iopen iya accounts to check if nag chat2 bah sila atu nah girl..ala nako ni focus sa uban girls, but sa katu nga girl njud ko nag bantay..Mao nlang jud ang always reason nganu mag away meh.. maglagot ako uyab nako usahay kay murah daw ko ug ala salig niya..
    but dili man inana, dili lang jud ko nahan nga magka commu sila balik, kay mahadlok ko mabuhi balik ang issue..
    Maglagot sa ako self kay nganu inani ko ka over protective, pero maglagot sad ko sa ako uyab kay di xa ksabot sa ako na feel.. Masakitan rman jud ko bah mao dili ko nahan mag ka commu pah sila balik..


    Unsa ako angay buhaton?
    Pasagdaan nlang bah nako sila nga magcommu and trust my bf?
    or fight for what i feel and fight for my right as uyab niya?


    Please tell me..
    To TS.. ako nimo trust your bf.. coz the more you do that the more nga maapektuhan mo and it will lead to terrible insecure jud.. i mean insecure ka kay tungod mahadlok ka makakita xa lain or maibog xa lain whatsoever. don't be afraid.. just trust your bf lng kay if you do that often, mura na nmo gi PUSH ang guy nga magbnoang xa nmo.. trust me! dli na maayo sis labi na ingon ka hitsuraan mo?makapoul bya usahay inaana imo partner kay feel nmo every move COUNTS, every move should be perfect, and every move nmo mali.. sayonanan ka ana na feelings?so trust ur bf jud.. or tell him to trust you too.. better talk mo duha unsa'y maayo og dli angay buhaton but just let God unsa plan sa inyoha.. you can't predict kung unsa mahitabo sa inyo relationship and i know you can prevent sa mga bad scenario sa inyo relationship but still trust lng jud.. kay isa mn gud na sa pundasyon sa relasyon sis.. ako to tell you honestly.. dli ko gwapo, hitsuraan gamay. pero ako wife gwapa xa og lakas s-e-x appeal.. tanan klac lalake maibog nya.. mabata, tiguwang, kwartahan, professiona, foreigner or maskin politiko.. pero i still trust her jud.. mailhan mn nmo ang tawo sis kung naay bnuhatan. ma feel nmo na deep inside sa iya heart og the eye he look at you.. if mahitabo mn gani na then buhata unsa'y angay buhaton esp. if masalbar pa relasyon.. see?inaana ako wife ha pero relax ra kaayo ko.. magkatawa ra gani ko naa'y mga suitor nya.. kay ako simple tao, di ka gwapohan pero kung s-e-x Performance lng.. aw! murag mao jud na cgro hinungdan perti ka SELOSA og Insecure ako asawa ui! hahahaha! btaw wa man sad ko hinambog ha pero feel lng nako.. hahaha! bastah ayaw palabi ana imo pagka insecure sis kay mapul-an rba me mga lalake inaana style.. basin nya noon mahagit na imo bf magbnoang na noon xa kay mo ingon rna xa "magbinoang ko nya or dli mao ra kwentahan mao ra'y sala og cause sa amo away so maypa magbnoang nlng pra atleast naa xa rason masuko nako..! see?di mn cgro ka gusto inaana mosulod sa mind sa imo bf sis hehehe!
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    Quote Originally Posted by pau-pau View Post
    we have all the access sa tanan accounts namu, ei. facebook,g+,skype and more..
    just wondering if naa pud sa access sa imong account diri sa istorya?

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    Quote Originally Posted by fotam View Post
    just wondering if naa pud sa access sa imong account diri sa istorya?
    nice one.. basin naa pud.. aw,wa ba naapil nya sa pag-enumerate?

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