How long will u hold grudges?

[overseer]

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ikaw ra giboang anang grudges nimo. so better forgive and forget.

OT: is this in any way addressed for me?

[akokini_john]

@overseer: definitely not.

[oliver_g0110]

ahhh the mind of a hateful man...... i hold grudges for many years and i have the patience to retaliate slowly and surely.... this is my strength and this is my weakness also.. the mind of a hateful man.......

hope this could change... coz at back of my mind... this is not good

R18

[-nile-]

ako bai..ok ra nko..kadali ra man ko maka pasaylo bai but lain na ang akong tinagdan nila..ingana ra man na..diba

[akokini_john]

ana judna bai nile, mausab imong pagtagad nila, pero mabalik rana kadogayan bai, kung makabaton naka og trust balik nila.

[giver_bert]

i usually go to places conducive to thinking, where i can just let my mind wander and think of things such as this.. when my long-held angers already ignited fires that burn the other people i come into contact with.. when it slowly poison my relationship with other people.. when it's taking the joy out of my life by reminding me of my "right" to be angry, to be resentful, to hate.. yet hatred, anger and resentment do not make me happy person.

it's at that point when i start to ask myself.. would you rather be right or happy? so far, i always chose to later..

[gstring]

as much as possible i try not to hold grudges...im a happy person!

[ysilona]

i used to be a happy person who never hold grudges.. but since i was betrayed by someone i trusted, i've changed.. worse, wala nagsorry ang tao.. so unsa man imo ma forgive ana?

but time still taught me how to forgive.. and forget.. dili man gud mau kung magsige ka hold ug grudge.. it is kinda self-destructing.

[KaTzKi]

aku if naa ku kalaen sa usa ka tao, gimme some time alone. pero when i come to think abt the prob n why it happened.. dali r'ku kasabot, if sala nku, i say sorry if dli nku sala, hulat rsad ku. i always forgive. i never hold grudges, cos i knoe things happen for a reason..

[Hakim]

ako bai dumot jud ko.kung makalimot ko swerte pro kung dili dumot jud.