In general, dili raman mu matter what perfume a guy wears, as long as he enjoys wearing it and he doesnt suffocate the people around him.
For me, the right amount of perfume means that it gives a sillage or projection of 1-2 feet, meaning others can ONLY smell it if they are close to you or when hugging you. If your scent enters a room before you do, then you are clearly overspraying.
But you do have a good suggestion. If your wife or g.f is like me nga sensitive kaau ug nose and easily gets headaches or allergies with certain scents, then better if kuyugon nlng inig shopping. Para maka find mu ug scent that would make you both happy.