1) if dli kamao mohimo og effort to set one foot forward- what i mean is, kanang makakuha sa attention sa babaye, let's say sense of humor, naai self confidence to approach a woman na dili presko og dating, knows how to start a good conversation, may a guy be physically attractive or not, bsta makapa smile lang ka sa girl on first meeting ninyo, dako na kau kag pogi points ana.
2)irresponsible- while you are dating, a smart woman will know right away if angayan baka himuon partner,like naai tarong na trabaho, OK na income ky unsaon nlang gasto ninyo og mgdate mo, di mo kapalit ana popcorn man lang kung manan-aw mo sine, and lastly, for future preparation napod na(u know what i mean)
3)rude and dispectful- ofcourse, who would want a partner na rude and diesrespectful, makita mani kung unsaon pagtreat sa guy ang mga tawo around him, like kana mgkuyog mo, unsaon nia pgtreat ang ubos nia, for sure sa girl, grabe jud kau na sila amping ky nanguyab pagud..
4)dishonest - that if madiscover ni dayon na bakakon ang guy, so guys, lay all your cards daan and if the girl decides to stay with you, then you  hit the jackpot!
5) was really  confused what could be my 5th, but i think- how he treat my family and friends- its not really a big deal if maganahan daun ako friends and family sa guy, maybe later on.. but it matters on unsaon nia pakitungo sa mga tawo na dear to my heart..so guys, act naturally lang jud, anyway if a girl really likes you, she  will take all odds even if it involved family and friends, just saying..
hope that helps 
