@noy
let me start from your term SPECIFIC.
i honestly think that everything that had happen were not specifically made.i think everything happened, accidentaly, and were adapted through the years. amongst all the planet, earth is the most appropriate planet to have life, (not because it's specifically made, but because it happen by proof, distance from other planets, temperature, atmosphere and anything else. if some other planet were in the same position then it would also happen to it) and so it indeed adapted life, began from the smallest organism until to its current state. adapted different particles, genes, and whatsoever (im no science geek) and began to progress.
if everything happened specifically, why didn't it happen to other planets? because it cannot afford to produce life, then what's the specific use of these planets?
if everything is specific, why do teeths grow in different positions? why do we have different genes? different DNA? why are we somewhat connected to other species? simple because we adapted everything.
my word for you is ADAPTABILITY, you can conclude that everything happen specifically because you feel it to be so perfect, yet it isn't, it was adapted through billion or millions of years.
also you quoted "if God exists, it's between you and Him..."
the word "if" bothered me, so are you still considering the possibility that god do not exist?
lastly, just want to ask something, this is somewhat more about religion, because i think you have a wide knowledge about it.
lets assume that one god totally exist, why do we have different religion and different beliefs? also why do we have to worship this god? rather than just leave it be?
i find your ideas very interesting, i hope this discussion continues in a good manner.
thank you.