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[FreezedEntity]

What was your family's reaction?

[nyak168]

my mom was okay with it kay dli man pud ko halata, dili lang siya nahan ma pareha ko sa uban makit.an niya.. my younger brother and my lola wasnt.. wala mi nagtalk sa akong lola for a year or so ato kay bawal man sa amoa na kay chinese akong lola.. pero kadugay na okay naman although naa ghapon ang thought na dili siya nahan..

[iMAX]

@lester_j; thank you for the info. yeah its been a while since I had that bad experience here but need to move on and make sense with my life. the only sad thing now is don't have friends here to share my feelings and dramas in life lol but just need to focus on my 1st plans and go on with my life without having interrupting it again by this so called stupid love. lol (now i'm ranting about my love life lol!) but anyways nice to be back.

[lester_j]

out na.. pag college days nako, 1st year to be exact.. pag uyab nako..hahaha pero gamay ra kabalo.. close friends, close classmates.. pero nakabalo akong family sa akoa kato pag uyab nako sa lain 6 years ago.. kay diri man ni stay akong ex sa amoa.. haha 4 years+ mi.. mao na.. pero karon single na for 2 years.. walay gawas2x pero usahay mo laag pud pero kuyog ra close friends nako pag highschool.. pero most of the time, naa ra jud ko balay duwa online games, internet.. work pud diri ra pud sa balay.. haha

Wow, in a way, ga live in mo in your family's house? amazing. Tell some moar.

@lester_j; thank you for the info. yeah its been a while since I had that bad experience here but need to move on and make sense with my life. the only sad thing now is don't have friends here to share my feelings and dramas in life lol but just need to focus on my 1st plans and go on with my life without having interrupting it again by this so called stupid love. lol (now i'm ranting about my love life lol!) but anyways nice to be back.

So make new friends then. haha. Join a club or something. Walay mga recreational clubs diha sa inu area?

[Wynna]

ari nalang sa ko tambay beh, kay murag na commatose man tong mga tao sa pikas hahaha

[nyak168]

Wow, in a way, ga live in mo in your family's house? amazing. Tell some moar.

yup, nagstay siya sa amoa.. dli man gud siya taga cebu ato.. ni anhi lang siya kay naa ko cebu so mao to ni decide to na mo stay sa siya sa amo for the meantime lang then when makawork na siya makabalhin na siya and look for a place.. pero kato nakakita na siya work, naa ghapon siya sa amoa and the funny thing ato kay for a couple of months, sige mi tago sa ako lola na naa siya here, so whenever mo lakaw na siya for work, amo lipaton akong lola pero kadugayan nasakpan ra nuon, mao to time na wala na mi ga talk sa akong lola and didto napud siya nakabalo about nako.. bati sa akong part kay i feel like ako g betray akong lola kay nagdala ko someone sa balay without her knowing since nagpuyo man mi sa balay sa akong lola.. pero along the way, even if you did everything for that person to the extent na you opened up to your family about sa imong sexuality and maka ingnun pud ko na i betrayed them.. things wont really work the way you really want it to be kay nagbulag man ghapon mi.. haha.. i can say it was the challenging relationship i ever had.. kana gani na buhat na nimo tanan sa usa ka tao pero at the end, dili ghapon worth it.. wala ra.. and complicated man pud kaayo to na relationship gud, na abot sa point na nagpa martyr nako even though sakit na pero padayon ghapon... pero naabot ghapon ang point na enough is enough so i ended my longest relationship.. it wasnt healthy naman gud.. mao lagi na g ingnun nila gugmang g.atay.. hahaha mao na karon im still single for 2 years, not looking but hoping that someday someone will come.. hahaha pero ambot lisod naman sad, im always at home.. laag ghapon once a month but kuyog nako mga close friends ra ghapon.. and in my case, its hard for me to mingle with people kay ako type na person na if i dont like someone, i dont go and pretend to talk.. and even if mo pretend ko ma klaro ghapon sa akong nako.. ingnun sila suplado daw ko.. pero that is the real me.. no pretenses.. mao siguro wala pakoy uyab kay supladohan sila nako.. hahaha but honestly, when you get to know me.. im not that person at all.. its just that naa lang jud ko wall gbuhat.. its up to that person whether willing siya to break that wall and get to know me.. haha.. stop nako diri kay murag taas na kaayo ni.. LOL

[spitfire]

@nyak, welcome!

In a way, maka-relate pud ko sa imong gi-aagi-an - i lost people's trust, lost my dignity, lost my financial support, and was forced to go away and work to keep living. Up until now, I still wish i could have done things differently. But then really, if only people (especially family) could have been more accepting.

[FreezedEntity]

I will not break those walls. Those are your walls, your protection. We need protection from the bad guys and bad things.
Why would I break them? No. What will I do? I will construct a door, for me to get in. And you know what? I'm the only who holds the key.














CHAR MEOW

[nyak168]

@nyak, welcome!

In a way, maka-relate pud ko sa imong gi-aagi-an - i lost people's trust, lost my dignity, lost my financial support, and was forced to go away and work to keep living. Up until now, I still wish i could have done things differently. But then really, if only people (especially family) could have been more accepting.

true but at the end of the day, it doesnt really matter man pud whether or not they will accept who you are as long lang you are happy with your own skin and wala kay g tamakan na tao.. although tinuod nindot paminawon na accepted ka pero honestly para sa akoa okay ko if lisod nila i accept na unsa ko basta respect lang.. pero im happy that my mom accepts me and akong bro okay2x nami ron bisag kabaw ko dili siya nahan na ingani ko.. pero naa lang ang respect, im okay with it..

I will not break those walls. Those are your walls, your protection. We need protection from the bad guys and bad things.
Why would I break them? No. What will I do? I will construct a door, for me to get in. And you know what? I'm the only who holds the key.
CHAR MEOW

hahaha bitaw sakto pud ka dili angay i break ang wall.. i construct lang ug door para maka sud.. kay lisod na i break ang wall kay dugay biya kaayo mo himo ug wall balik.. )

[lester_j]

@nyak168,

What made you decide man nga didto nalang xa puyo sa place sa imong lola? nana man kaha xay work ato di ba?