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lisod ni TS ug dili pa mo kasal kay ang custody usually adto jud na sa bata...pero pwede na makasuhan imong ex ug iyang ka-iring² kay minyo man siya...imo pahibaw-on ang asawa sa laki para ang babaye ang mu-file ug kaso

[Bonjing0611]

From everything that's happening, bro are you free to see the child anytime
you wish? If she's trying to play hard ball on you then that could be a problem.

If you're taking legal action against them, it will simply a game of your word against
theirs bro. Like you claimed that they're so good in being discreet that they were
able to pull this off right under your nose and even your mutual friends are backing
her up by covering her tracks, how will you be able to justify their indiscretion?

Have you sought help from her family or even yours? It's way too hard to settle a
domestic problem when you don't have any support either from families or friends
because when you battle this out, the court will have to hear from both sides.

That's why I'm asking how is your set-up in seeing your baby because if you don't have
any probs at all then just stick with that bro. What matters is you both share the child's
custody. Then forget about the girl how she's screwing her life with the married guy.

(Sorry, naglisod jud ko sa imo situation so mao ra ni na arang2x na action mahatag nako..)

God bless bro. Hope mahusay ni alang pod sa baby ninyo..

I have no problems seeing my daughter however ako jud ang muadto sa ilaha.. Di jud nya ipahuwam ang bata which lead to the point nga di na nuon kaila.. Mao na akong kalagutan.. But thank you sa advise, nindot kaayo.. Dat's wat am doing, keeping myself busy and using my freedom..

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kulataha nalang cguro para mawagtang imo kalagot.. hehehehhe, kay kung ipaagi thru legality taas taas pa man ka ug agian, and u need proof like pictures nga uyab jud cla duha. and murag lisod sad kay live in mo. ang wife cguro sa guy(of your gf) maoy angay mo kiha kay they are legally married. sa law man gud, if the child is below 4 yrs. old, anha jud nah sa mother, but if you have concrete evidence nga dili karapat dapat ang imo gf para mo buhi sa inyo anak. go for it....

Mao jud akong nahuna hunaan nga mas dali makagawas sa kalagot.. Pero ingon pa sakong Manager, don't waste ur job sa walay pulos nga butang though wa jud mayng lalake ani nga problema, move on nalang nya be happy..

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kulataha nalang cguro para mawagtang imo kalagot.. hehehehhe, kay kung ipaagi thru legality taas taas pa man ka ug agian, and u need proof like pictures nga uyab jud cla duha. and murag lisod sad kay live in mo. ang wife cguro sa guy(of your gf) maoy angay mo kiha kay they are legally married. sa law man gud, if the child is below 4 yrs. old, anha jud nah sa mother, but if you have concrete evidence nga dili karapat dapat ang imo gf para mo buhi sa inyo anak. go for it....

Mao jud akong nahuna hunaan nga mas dali makagawas sa kalagot.. Pero ingon pa sakong Manager, don't waste ur job sa walay pulos nga butang though wa jud mayng lalake ani nga problema, move on nalang nya be happy..

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sorry to hear that boss...
di ko sulti i know what you must've been through kay wala man ko kasuway ana...pero akong biyaan nang bayhana...even be happy for myself for it...
maayo gani kay di pa mo kasado...
and yes,luoy ang babaye ug pamilya ato...nya luoy pod imong bata...
kalimti tanan...start new...

Wala naman me sa akong x gf.. She's now staying sa guy i believe.. Nisugot siya kabit siya kay naay gaingon nako muuli gapon ang laki sa original.. Gwapo lang jud ang laki.. hahahaha

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there is a country that legalizes you to kill your spouse if you caught them on the act...but you can kill them only with a certain object...i forgot what...

just so you know, TS...hahaha...bitaw...don't be bad...be proud instead nga ikaw ang mas MORAL nga tawo...kaysa sa imong GF...

Wa sad sa punto nga patyon nako.. Patagam lang.. Pero mao lage, why waste my time..

[beyee]

I have no problems seeing my daughter however ako jud ang muadto sa ilaha.. Di jud nya ipahuwam ang bata which lead to the point nga di na nuon kaila.. Mao na akong kalagutan.. But thank you sa advise, nindot kaayo.. Dat's wat am doing, keeping myself busy and using my freedom..

Mao sad na kafaet basta Ana na situation bro,
maipit ang bata be a constant guide to your
child not only being physically present but via
calls pod if you're pressed for time to visit their
house.

In these times, worst case will be the child will
have insecurities and have twisted mindset of
a family if there's no guidance at all because of what
he/she sees from his/her parents. I observed this
common problem among my students before when
I used to teach little ones. Looy jud kaau

So be strong Lang bro, I hope Dili ipagdamot in time
imo anak sa imo... Mayta makaamgo pod imo ex.

That's good that you're keeping yourself busy

God bless

[Bonjing0611]

wa koy sure boss if maka kiha ka sa imung ex tungod kay di man gud mo minyo..
regarding sa custody sa inyo anak, consulta lang ug abogado kung unsay options nimu...

pero kung ganahan jud kag sure, medyo gubot lang jud nuon ni...
isumbong na sila sa asawa sa uyab2x sa imung ex..(kay minyo man kaha)
ug ang iyang asawa maoy pa file-la ug legal nga reklamo bahin sa ilang relasyon..
and from that, tungod sa record sa imung ex, sure ball nga imu ang custodiya sa bata ninyo tungod sa iyang reputation...
HOWEVER, like i said, this option is very gubot..and daghan ug madamay ani like ang pamilya sa uyab sa imu ex...
so ikaw nay timbang2x...

Kabaw man ang iyang asawa bro.. Murag wa nalang gud siya mabuhat.. Di ko manghilabot nila, kapoy ug hatag sa oras nga way pulos nga butang..

[zairon1988]

patilawa nalang sa imong kumo..1 time lang --

[Bonjing0611]

Mao sad na kafaet basta Ana na situation bro,
maipit ang bata be a constant guide to your
child not only being physically present but via
calls pod if you're pressed for time to visit their
house.

In these times, worst case will be the child will
have insecurities and have twisted mindset of
a family if there's no guidance at all because of what
he/she sees from his/her parents. I observed this
common problem among my students before when
I used to teach little ones. Looy jud kaau

So be strong Lang bro, I hope Dili ipagdamot in time
imo anak sa imo... Mayta makaamgo pod imo ex.

That's good that you're keeping yourself busy

God bless

Mao nalang akong gipaabot mangita ang bata sa akoa.. I know she's in good hands with her grandparents.. Gaba nalang siguro akoa.. Kay kapoy nako huna2x.. Adlaw2x nalang.. I just want to have a simple family pero lisod man diay..

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patilawa nalang sa imong kumo..1 time lang --

Basin unya brad.. Kay mag practice ug basketball, nya naa man siya didto.. Basin jud! hehehehe

[beyee]

Why are you saying GABA on your part bro?

[kit_cebu]

Gwapo lang jud ang laki.. hahahaha

aw....naa raman diay ni....pwede man pod maki-sawo nalang sa imong EX sa laki....hahahhaha....

[Bonjing0611]

Why are you saying GABA on your part bro?

Nope.. What I mean paabot lang ko nga gabaan sila..

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aw....naa raman diay ni....pwede man pod maki-sawo nalang sa imong EX sa laki....hahahhaha....

Mas gwapo pako..

[beyee]

Nope.. What I mean paabot lang ko nga gabaan sila..

Awww hehehe.. Di bitaw magsaba ang gaba.