Warning: This is a rant!

[Istudyante-Ni-Pikoy]

Grabeha pd oi, ga salig naman. Yeah better jud, send them nalang a fix amount.
Sila nalang bahala unsaon nila pag budget mga needs. ^_^

Mga ordinary pinoy family diri sa atoa , kn gikan ka sa pobre na lifestyle, ug sa dihang kalit lang
ma dato or naa gisaligan. Na kasagaran ana ma uwi ra pasaway. Amu gani silingan na naninda
ra ug linitro na gasolina, nka abroad ang anak then gi suportahan sa mga bayranan ug padadan
butang, sponsoran pa jd sa mga gastuhonon. Karun grabeh na usab ang kini-iya. tsk tsk...Kusog nkaayo
manlibak ug manaway sa mga silingan na tan-aw nila na mas ubos pa nila. Na usab na gyud.
Daghan nkaayo na sila mga kaaway na karun mga silingan. Liman ka ang Pajero ky presyo ra daw sa
sardinas na lata --asa, saonz. ^_^ Grabeh. Naa sad usah, silingan sa boarding house nako, nka abroad
ra gani grabeh na managirlyo ug englishan2x nata, attaka aning tigulang na grabeh kaayo mangibition.
Sauna tig bantay ra sa sari-sari, karun abi nka bana ug foreigner ang anak. Grabeh. ^_^

[<SMILE>]

Help? Their ears to listen because thats all that i need. I dont want my friends to know about it because i know they will just feel sorry for me and that i do not accept. I just dont like anyone to feel sorry for me.

I was admitted in a mental institution for a month. They didnt even know until they rang to ask where's the money to pay for the bills, they were more worried of not receiving any money from me than me being stuck in a mental hospital.

Im starting to loose respect of my mum. As a matter of fact, im starting to dislike it. I feel abd of saying this but this is now what i feel.

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Thank you for your very kind words but i know it wont take long that they will disown me eventually and i couldnt care less.

I am just way too sick of whats going on right now. My life is a mess and it will always be unless i cut them off.

The only solution to your problem I think
is for you to be firm and strong, and Sis if you feel the wind is quite strong,
as they say be like a bamboo, just relax have great time with your husband and son,
do not concentrate yourself with such negative implications it will erode your strength,
give yourself a break face the problem when you are quite robust enough to face it,
please do take care of your self, and remember that you are not only a daughter, a sister,
but you are a Mom and a Wife as well, your husband and your Son needs you.

[jumps_zilla]

I agree with BeoR. This is definitely emotional blackmail from an ungrateful person. I hope your family wakes up to the reality that you can't support them forever and will have to pull their own weight a little.

Cheers!

[BeoR]

Oh if you think you're giving them a future, you are not. You are simply giving them a life full of fantasies. They can never stand on their own if you don't change and stand your ground... and they will just multiply. Imagine when all your siblings will have their own children and that is the kind of life that they are used to.

[brian joshua]

ts, magbinisaya lng ko ha? binuang man ning ingun ani nga kahimtang.
sa tinood pagka storya, kung ingun ani akong ginikanan, uroy bahalag
mangamatay di ko mo tunol ug kwarta. patilawon gyud nako ug kasakit
nga maka pausab ug maka liso sa ilang panghuna huna nga gada lang
na silag bwesit sa imong kinabuhi.

namasin lng ko nga kung magpa gahi2 ka, basin naa pay kausaban nga
mahitabo sa ilang pamatasan.

[bearish]

I think enough has been said for you here TS. It is time for you to evaluate everything and ponder upon how would you like to go on doing things as you used to do.

What your family has been doing is kind of an EXTORTION. I suppose you know how to react with such kind of an act, right? It is your call. If you need counselling then find one and I hope you will listen.

Do what is right, even if it's hard and even if it hurts.

If you have the conviction of helping your family the right way, then listen to the advise of the people who give their heartfelt thoughts on your dilemma.

Ayaw na na daghan palusot diha. Secretary, website, hunger strike, phone numbers, etc, etc... Ayaw kahadlok. Stand on your ground and on your rules. Don't let anyone fool you ever again.

And by the way, it might help if you distance yourself a little bit from them. Contact them as you wish, but not the other way around. Surround yourself with some good friends so you can take them off your mind. Don't think of them too much and don't give in to their threats. Relax and be easy to yourself.

[sushikandi]

I feel sad reading your story. Be strong, I know they are family but they need to be considerate. I hope this will resolve, after all they are your family. Also, can I work with your company? =)

[JcBoY]

This is a case of "Money or being affluent can't buy you real happiness", though you can do virtually anything you please. Clearly you have missed the target and have only succeeded in attaining what can be termed as illusory and transitory happiness because you have chosen and defined it yourself how you achieved happiness.

[nitwit]

Oh if you think you're giving them a future, you are not. You are simply giving them a life full of fantasies. They can never stand on their own if you don't change and stand your ground... and they will just multiply. Imagine when all your siblings will have their own children and that is the kind of life that they are used to.

That is exactly my point to my mum sir. I want my siblings to see the real world and be able to survive in the real world. I want my older sister to for once to take some responsibility. She can work if she wants too but she prefers to mock around instead.

Ill stand my ground, ill stick with just sending my siblings allowance for their school and let my older sister find a job to pay for the utility bills. Its been 3 weeks now that i have not spoke to my mum, she sends my younger sister to make the phonecalls and begging for all of them.

Ill keep you posted. Thanks heaps for all the good advice.

[ayki]

labada sa ulo ani oi pero kaya ra na nimo maam
don't give in sa imong ungrateful family sa pinas--instead, focus on your own family: your child & your husband. they need you to stay sane. good luck.