that's what you have to deal with if your boyfriend has a child. if you can't deal with the situation, let your boyfriend go and move on. you're ONLY the present girlfriend... but his child is HIS child, he can't deny that... & because the child is with the mother, she has to be there too. it's a very complicated situation, and if you're the present girlfriend.. you just have to make sacrifices in order for your relationship to work... pero if i were you, i would find someone who is SINGLE and childless

i think there are still a few available. hehe.