Ipa-barang nalang na, bitaw, tan-awa ninyo kung asa mo nag-kulang, and then try to fix it! kung dili na gani madala then, ngita lain. daghan diha.he,he.
life goes on... rebel a bit and learn from it.
sa girl na side, as much as I would want to patch things up, but a person will remain who he is. you've been blinded before kung unsa jud ang batasan sa taw kay lagi gusto nimo ma work out ang family, but in reality, lisod kaau na ang CHANGE. ang buhaton nako og akong gibuhat as the head of the family, dli nako ipa.feel sa kids na broken ilang family. plastikay nalang with ex pra lang ma feel japon sa kids na in good terms ilang parents although we no longer live in the same house. ang mga kids maoy mo.adto sa house sa amahan. (Imagina!)
bottom line, it's the kids who matters. mold them to become better persons in the future, someone nga dli mamiya and ang sense of responsibility nila is ana ka dako.
ang importante ra sa broken family is ang mga anak need ang jud naa open communication sa mama og papa at least dili nila mafeel ang sitwasyon nga ingon ana . speaking from experience ni akoa kay im separated man sad for how many years na sa akong ex ..
paghimo nimo og pamilya, ang dapat unta ang kids na ang sentro sa tanan. welfare nila. ilang needs: food, shelter, education. but since, broken man (whatever the reason is), secondary nana tanan. ang pinaka importante na ang love and affection. letting them know that they are not incomplete just because they are from a broken family. letting the kids know and feel that nothing has changed except for the constant presence of either mom and dad. ang love sa parents dapat mas double if not triple or ka million times pa.
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