Friends With Benefits

[catheeyen25]

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^^lawma jeed

[bula1980]

@Butitor; it seems to me that you are after the "benefit"...how about the friendship?doesnt it weigh more to you? kung mawala ang friendship,dili kaha ka magmahay?

anyway,depende ra pud na sa sabot..kung fwb lang gyud mo kutob,make it clear from the very beginning para walay mahayay

[catheeyen25]

maypag dili nalang ipa agi sa fwb... if u like her why not try nga mu serious ka niya...

[Butitor]

@Butitor; it seems to me that you are after the "benefit"...how about the friendship?doesnt it weigh more to you? kung mawala ang friendship,dili kaha ka magmahay?

anyway,depende ra pud na sa sabot..kung fwb lang gyud mo kutob,make it clear from the very beginning para walay mahayay

Sa pranka na pag istorya hilabi na sa amo mga lake, kung ganahan ka sa usa ka baye dili man gud malikayan ang Lust. And yes, our friendship weigh a lot.


Maybe I like her.

Sakto sad si @catheeyen25

[bula1980]

Or maybe I like her.

try kuno panguyabi be...basin diay ganahan pud sya nimo weeeeeeeh

[catheeyen25]

Pero if tarong xa nga girl, di xa mu enter anang fwb lang oe... Ganahan diay xa nimo.. You can try to make diskarte

[Meeyah_16]

ingna na si dj mo loslos

dapat d maabot ug 1 week laen nsad, para d ka ma inlove

di man adlaw adlawun uy... di na man sad ta kabarug ana.. panagsa ra, ug naa panahon

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@butidor
Ug magsinabatanay, ngano need pa man ang friends with benefits.. panguybi diay? ... bunal nah!

[bellah]

ambot kaha kay lahi2x man...tsk tsk

naay may fwb nga sila jd nagka dayun,

mag dpende ra jd na sa sabot ug pag sinabtanay alkansi ang tinuod nga na higugma ani,nia ang isa mura rag wala....mao ng taronga ug sabot para walay masakitan in the end....good luck sa mga naka relate ani....

[Passport]

I have been happily married for 15 years to a wonderful man who is handsome, responsible, and a very loving person. I am only in my late 30s but have achieved so much in life. What more can I ask for? Guess I’m just crazy to put myself in a complicated situation.

Before I met my husband, I was in a long-distance relationship with a Filipino based abroad. I thought he was “the one,” but we ended our relationship without formal closure. In 2009, I got reconnected with him through Facebook, and found out that he’s already married and has a child. He apologized to me for what happened to us, I forgave him, and we eventually became friends. The constant communication went on for two years.

In 2011, he came home to Manila and apologized to me again, in person. We saw each other a couple of times during his two-week vacation, and things just happened so fast… unexpectedly. We agreed there’ll be no strings attached—no expectations and no demands.

We don’t say “I love you,” celebrate anniversaries, or make any plans for a life together. But we agreed to see each other every two years. When he came home this year, we talked about breaking up, but couldn’t… not at this time. But we both know this can’t go on forever.
We can’t explain our kind of relationship. We can’t call it “love,” as we both love our respective partners. We can’t call it “lust” either as we only see each other every two years. What do you think is this?

—Apple


You want a name for this “thing” you are having? How about “friends with benefits,” to borrow the title of a recent Hollywood movie starring Ashton Kutcher.

You’re proclaiming there’s no love or lust involved, because you both love your respective spouses. Yet you have professed to maintain this ritual, this scheduled sexual encounter every two years!

Truth be told, your case is not unique, nor is it shocking. That exact scenario has already been dramatized in a movie decades ago called “Same Time Next Year” starring Maggie Smith. Your thing with this guy is just a rehash, a repetition of what’s happening between couples who still like each other enough to meet every so often for ***. Yet, they are not that wholly committed to go the whole nine yards to leave or even compromise their happily settled married lives. Nobody is inconvenienced with these dalliances, technically.

These “meetings” look just like a vacation for two people like yourselves, to get over the hump of marital boredom or undefined stress, and enjoy that kick of adrenaline high for a week or two. It’s like having Christmas, or Thanksgiving, twice—every time you meet.

You two will always have fun together because you will never be burdened by the mundane, the unexciting chores of mortgage payments, grocery shopping, or toilet repairs—you know, the minutiae of everyday living. Your only worries are fun-related, like where to meet, what to eat, or what gifts to give each other, a slice of fairy tale every two years.

Enjoy it while you can because life is in constant flux. Affairs, or whatever you call it, have that tendency to cool off. This friendship with benefits is rooted on shifting sands. There’s really not much concrete to support and anchor yourselves in.

[Synthetic]

di man adlaw adlawun uy... di na man sad ta kabarug ana.. panagsa ra, ug naa panahon

dli lang adlaw2 gabie2 lang