Which is more Immoral (or Worse)

[lstorya]

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we cant just take one side of the story. sa ingon ani nga istorya, we are easy to conclude nga dautan ang bana nga mangulata, of course BUT do we even know nganong mangulata ang bana? Why I ask this question is I knew someone on this same situation before. Dili nalang nako lay on, ang lalaki nga na inlove sa married nga woman nga kinulata sa bana kay akong exhubby. Niadto, maluoy jud ming tanan sa babay which happen to be my kumare pud nga she was badly treated by her husband. singhag singhagan lang siya, kulatahon pa. later na lang nako nahibaw an ang tinuod nga hinungdan katong nabiktima nami niya. in short nahimo niyang kabit akong exhubby (and she was the reason the marriage fall apart) and this was after gikabit sad sa girl akong ulitaw nga cousin. laktod pagka sulti, bigaon diay kaau bayhana. she would use her situation for people to believe her, take her side and feel sorry for her. kapila naman diay siya nasakpan sa iyang bana nga naay lalaki mao sigehag kulata pero ang bana moy dili mobuwag kay tungod sa mga bata. we have to see both sides of the coin before we can judge who is good and who is evil because looks can be deceiving.

Actually, you guys can judge all you want. Ang husband dyud is grabeh ka salbahes, one of the causes is ang husband daghan og babaye. Since may hitsura man dyud, gwapohon, gi confront ni wife, maoy na kulatahan. Currently, gaipon gihapon sila og house pero gabulag na sila inside, wala sila gaipon og kwarto... daw, mao ingon sa ako friend.

does it matter which is which?

btw, ts, does this happen here sa pinas or sa abroad?

Diri ra intawon Cebu oi, grabeh na sad ka chikadoro nako if naa na abroad, hehehe.

[Passport]

Diri ra intawon Cebu oi, grabeh na sad ka chikadoro nako if naa na abroad, hehehe.

the reason i asked about where the incident happened is because if both parties happen to be ofws currently abroad, different laws will be applicable to this. both the law of that country of residence, as well as Philippine laws which covers Philippine citizens too as far as the Family Code is concerned.

it is not about being "chikadoro" as you have indicated.

[c3ss]

Sakto mn nga there are two sides sa story... but given nga naa diay bati nga nabuhat diay ang babae... it doesnt give the husband the right nga mangulata xa...

And sakto sd c @longix nga ifix first ang root sa problem.... before taking in another guy...

[supernova37]

hmmmmmm...I think to be in love w/ a married person is not a sin (immoral), what makes it a sin (immoral) is when you commit adultery...to beat a woman/wife is an offense under our law R.A. 9262...therefore you've done wrong ....brave ladies if gibuhat na sa inyong mga bana better report to the police..to give justice sad natong mga babaye...mao gani gikuha ta kilig sa bukog ni adan para pangga.on ug mahalon, dili kulatahon..

[Passport]

hmmmmmm...I think to be in love w/ a married person is not a sin (immoral), what makes it a sin (immoral) is when you commit adultery...to beat a woman/wife is an offense under our law R.A. 9262...therefore you've done wrong ....brave ladies if gibuhat na sa inyong mga bana better report to the police..to give justice sad natong mga babaye...mao gani gikuha ta kilig sa bukog ni adan para pangga.on ug mahalon, dili kulatahon..

i disagree Nova.. about being immoral.. love is never immoral. in fact, love is not subject to issues of morality.. but that is just me.

[carbrill]

Who is more Immoral (or Worse), a man whose in love with a married woman or the man who beats his wife? I know that some might not consider a man beating the wife immoral in a sense that immorality has a different meaning, but you get the picture, thats why I put "Worse" there.

This is not connected to me but a friend who going through this right now. Kulatahon sya sa iya bana pero for some reason dili sya kabulag (I think its coz of the kids), while sa work kay naa sya guy friend nga gi confide niya ang problema niya daun nahimo na sad og shoulder to cry on ang guy. And nagkadugay, nagkauyab sila, in fairness, sincere dyud inoon ang guy sa iyaha. She needs to do something daw para matarong tanan, so she asked me that question.

it is not a reason why she can't let go of the husband because of the kids. don't use the kids as excuse. ayaw na ug huwata nga ang mga bata moy makakita nga gikulata ang ilang inahan or maka kita cge nga mag away ilang parents... regarding having an affair she has the right to do that...

[nicka]

well, its both immoral in my opinion........ yung bana gago at siraulo at yung pakikipagrelasyon sa may asawa.... mali pareho but may magagawa pa cya sa una eh...wag cyang martir... lumaban cya not physically but thru the court..... iwan niya na yang wlang kwentang yan... mamatay nalang cya ug binun-og mao na iyang gusto?? i thot she cares for their children?..

[bejabbers]

pwede man mo file ug case ang imong miga kung kulatahon siya sa iyang bana and pwede na ma anull.

better or worst.. not batter or worst

[s3thk]

pariah rana agawn, walay ma pili ana

[longix]

Lol mangorek ning uban diri ba mura jud ug wala nay pag'asa. It so happen dili kamo ang naa sa situation so don't judge right away. Ug ma inlove ta sa usa ka tawo nga minyo dili na sala kay in the first place dili nimo control imong kasing2x. Pero in the end ang atong brain lang gihapon mo decide asa ta padung.

About sa topic, common kaayo na nga panghitabo. Ug grabe najud ng pangulata niya pwede kaayo na niya ikiha. Or mag buwag for good.

The question is "who is more immoral?" igo ra ka nangorek sa mga valid opinions sa mga istoryans