Perhaps you need to talk to your partner first if unsa man jud iyang stand sa imong situation sa balay. And for benefit of the doubt, you need to tell him what you need him to do. As in details jud if magpatabang ba ka og storya og atubang sa iyang family to remedy the situation or unsa imo gusto na iya buhaton as your partner. Sometimes guys need to hear it. If di jud siya makahelp..well, siguro you need to think it over if you really have a partner in life or sa pangan lang. Hope this helps.