Bro, one thing is for certain. Wala gyud mi magbrag sa amount of savings nga naa namo ngari thread. We simply are just sharing. Maybe lang you feel that way because of how and what you feel when you wrote this post.
A lot of people who read the posts here are even inspired to save up. Some people even said nga na awaken sila. That alone is something worth giving a positive look ani nga thread.
Anyway bro, basing on your post pud, I don't think having a lot of money has to do anything with no more time for the family and you not being happy with your life anymore. Basing lang sa imong posts, tungod sa imong businesses or somethings that you do, like your gadgets, computers, a hobby nahutdan naka ug time to be happy and you only sleep 2-4hours a day. Also you've got two pages of work that you have to do.
From this, it is clear nga dili tungod sa money ang imong na feel nga stress ug kawad-on sa oras and ultimately unhapiness, it is the things that you do. It is the priorities that you set.
Maybe indirectly makasulti ka nga tungod sa money mao na ingon ani ko karon.
But is it really?
Or is it because eventhough you have the money now, but you want more of it. You have very good achievements now, but you want more of it. You have unacknowleged participation/contribution in big marketing gimmicks, but you want it to be appreciated and acknowledge. With this basin now it becomes a question of priorities, time management, appreciation and acknowlegements. Because you want more of what you already have or ought to have simply because you think it can make you happy. Because of this wanting more, ang resulta wala na nuon ka mahappy. And you say it is because of money nganong unhappy ka.
From the years of savings up and being frugal, personally, importante gyud kaayo nga naay savings, mas dako mas maayo. This will help me in times of dire need.
I'd rather have that amount and withdraw from it when the need arises. What if masakit ko, masakit akong anak, masakit akong wife. Masakit akong parents, sisters, brothers. Those savings will definitely be a very very important help. And I'm not even saying I'm not unhappy having that. That savings makes me sleep at night feeling happy and and a little secure.
With all this, I don't and never have any intention of offending you bro ha, I just want to share ra but maybe you should revisit your priorities bro. I think it's not your savings or the amount of money you have in your savings account have that is making you unhappy now. I think it is your priorities. We shared because we want to inspire people to save. We did not share para ipasuya ang mga hard-earned buck para unya among gamiton in the near future.
And one more thing, even a teacher of mine who is a person in authority adviced nga people should go abroad to work. Para inig retire nila dollars ang kita-on. Kay ang pension niya 8,000, dili gani kuno even makabayad sa mga tambal sa sakit sa katiguwangon, at least sa abroad dako2x ang kita-on ug ang pension.
Sad reality, but if he has learned to save up labon bata pa siya ug nag invest for the long-run. Basin unta he's outlook on how you live our lives dinhi sa Pilipinas or in going abroad to work nga ang resulta ma-miss ang among family, dili na parehas sa iya naa natanom sa huna-huna karon. Kay kung naa unta siya dako nga savings, may it be from years of hard work or money from invested income or from business or what-not. At least man lang unta lahi ang iyang ma advice namo.
Lastly, I'd rather have more savings para pambayad unya sa akong ganahan. Ug savings para mobayad sa hospital bills in kaso ug unsa man gani mahitabo nako ug sa akong family and persons in the family circle.
Than have other people worry about finding money, magpabaga mangutang didto sa silingan, mananto, mamrendra, in kaso magkasakit ko or anybody sa akong family circle.
This is the jist in all this. Mas maayo nga naa koy ako, para matabangan nako ang akong kaugalingon para pud unya makatabang ko sa uban. Dili ko makatabang sa uban kung bisan ako dili gani katabang sa akong kaugalingon.
No offense bro. Just wanna share. And I'm not bragging, just want to inspire.
