akong seaman nga bana trying to turned to bisexual or gay...

[talas]

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Everything happens for a reason..

Pray nalang always.. Nothings impossible with prayers.. God Bless your Family

Pero lawm jud tong mga post ni joop di mada hehe

[precyfloor]

yes...naistorya nako ang laki ang tag iya sa cp number nga maoy ng txt sa message nga akong nabasa..yang kauban sa barko...39 years old ng twhana atong 2009...ilonggo 2ng ng ukay ug ng corrupt sa mind sa akong bana...

I feel for you TS. We somewhat have the same situation, but mine is worst than you are having right now. We are serodiscordant couple..my husband is HIV+ and i'm not. I already underwent series of HIV tests, 4 HIV tests and they turned out to be negative. God is really good. Trust in Him and everything will be okey. My husband is with us right now. I did not leave him. He needs me and he needs his children. Everything is going smooth, but sometimes, i really can't avoid to think of the pain and hurt he has caused me. It was really painful, and until now, im trying to be strong for my children. With God's grace TS, you will surely overcome it. WE CAN DO IT TS....WE JUST HAVE TO PRAY ALL THE TIME...pray for strength, wisdom and peace in our families..God bless you.


PS: Akong bana kay maypagka silahis pud. I don't know, basta, na feel nako...tinoud cguro jud ng instincts. If you will read my previous posts sa akong thread, naa mga instances didto nga mura jud sya ug silahis. Buotan kaayu sya, as in, murag dili makabuak ug baso. Dili muinom, dili manigarilyo, dlili barkadista. Makaingun gud uban nakong amiga nga swerte ra kaayo ko niya., plus gwapo pajud. Pero dili jud diay ta katag-an sa laki noh? cge na lng ts uy..mao naman jud ni..pray na lng ta...hihihi

[Tamblot]

@TS: Here is a very familiar line. "In richer and in poorer. In sickness and in health..." Are you still committed to this vow?

Here is my question for you. How do you want this to proceed? Do you still want to save the family from breaking down? Your man is currently confused and disoriented about his sexual preference. Identity crisis. He is a dysfunctional husband and with his inclination to sexual intimacy shifting from woman to man, I would say that your existence as a wife is getting less significant for him. And your nagging and policing him is just pushing more your significance down the drain. The more you apply pressure the more he goes underground and the more you are driving him to the other side. While you always quarrel about this everytime you are together, his boy friend out there is always there to listen. To make him feel that he still has someone who can understand. You are suppose to be that person and not that boy friend. Don't give up that position just because your anger is way above your head. Probably, what's keeping him from leaving is your children. Same with you I suppose.

Aggression wont always get you positive results. Your husband needs someone to guide him back on track. Now, enough of the blaming and all the craps. If you are not part of the solution, then most probably, you may be part of the problem. What I'm saying is, if your husband is still worth saving, start doing it now before he is completely consumed by this misconception. Your husband needs some counseling. Go find a good psychologist or a marriage counselor. With all diplomacy, get both of you to agree that you have to go through this and when he gets back, make it happen.

There are other options out there. Your choice is what makes the difference at the end. Only two outcomes. Make or break. It's your call.

[jover]

makatawa man sad ta ani TS

[- S m i L e Y -]

Wew! Mao jud cgro uban taga barko sa? Mu lubad jud ang uban oi.. Puros gud laki kuyog.. Tsk

[whiteKelso]

ataya aning istoryaha ts..lol

[maiden_asj]

ka-faet sad ani TS oi..

[joop]

Dawaton sa wala'y balibad kay mao man ang kapalaran nga atong nalungkab. Hinuon ang tanan adunay kapahungawan ug kini inyong makaplagan pinaagi lamang sa pagsangpit Kaniya inubanan sa hugot nga paghangyo sa iyang kalooy ingun man buligan dugang katakos ug lig-unon ang kasingkasing samtang sagubangon ang umaabot!

[woga]

gay or bisexual, transexual or not.... we always have the right to choose... I've been all those worlds... hehehe so kasabot kaayo ko. but I chose to be a guy balik. para ma balance jud ang tanan.... kay sa LGBT relationship dapat super patient jud. kay highest level ang complications...

[vahnhelsing]

^ sa ato pa dili diay genes na woga? by choice diay?