The Good Guy Nobody Chooses

[pohpay]

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naa siguro nagpa-hipi na diha's daplin TS, gahulat lang ug kanus-a ka moingon..
i-zoom lang ang imong camera :

[judge3ni]

i hope you don't use "good boy" as a replacement for TORPE. these are two different things often interchangeably used by mistake.

if you're a TORPE type then you really have to change. unsaon nimo pagka-uyab kung di ka kaingon? bugnaw og simud kung sa uban pa. you have to socialize more, alangan na man og makauyab ka kung imo lola or igsoon ra pirmi kuyog. i think and i agree with the others diri nga you need to change your strategy. you need to express more if you're not that type.

peo kung personality wise kay GOOD BOY jud ka and you have the average look and kabalo ra pud ka musulti. Maybe it is not you who is the problem kundi ang mga babae naa palibot nimo. do you have to change for them? well, are they worth it? if yes, then go.

if you don't mind TS, unsa man pud diay imo type? para mas ma-klaro namo kung unsa isulti..hehe

[nailv]

GOOD BOY is just a metaphor. they are labeled by that adjective coz they are afraid to screw up, meaning mahadlok masayop or dili gusto masayop, kay ganahan lage siya sa girl. Halos dli gani makahimo ug jokes kay feeling sa guy malain ang girl niya kung mag joke2x siya. mao na pa GOOD BOY style, pa impress sa girl. lol!

kung imo mga type TS, mga high quality nga babaye, dli gyud na mo work kana nga style. i've tried it and we've tried it and proven it before. they find it so boring. way thrill ug way lami.

Bottomline TS..

1) You have to feel good about yourself. Tan awa ang movie nga "Hitch" ni Will Smith. nya tan aw pud ug mga jokes ni Vice Ganda ug Michael V sa youtube. or watch your favorite actors on TV or online, watch their body language and how they deliver their words and speeches.

2) Avoid comparing yourself with other guys. Wa kai makuha ana. Ignore them kay wa ka'y pakialam nila.

3) Practice. Practice. Practice. Take actions. Be NOT afraid to do something outside of your comfort zone. Vanish that ego/pride OUT from your mind and body. Example, kung yam-iran ka sa girl or anyone else or they give you a brush-off, ayaw kalain. Instead, just smile or wink and wave your hand at them. Walay mawala nimo. You're solid and unshakable. OR, bisan ingnon pa ka nga bati kag nawng, or anything negative, just say,

"really? are you sure? ? wow! amazing!! thank you!! hahaha"

or kung moingon sila nga bati kag nawng, ako COUNTER ana kay, "bahala nag moingon kag bati kog nawng, basta para naku, GWAPO ko!"
hahahaha! diba? na gets nimo TS? WAGTANGON nimo imong EGO! kay traydor na! way na'y ayo! di ka mo asenso ana.

kani tanan ako gipang advice nimo, gikan ra pud ni sako mga mentors ug wingman sa PUA community...

Remember, you can use this NOT only with girls but also with your career, business, social life, love life or your life in general. even sa family nimo.

By the way, as a Catholic, i know and we know that PRIDE or EGO was the one that sealed the fate of the former most intelligent and most beautiful Archangel in Heaven. He chose and decided to dwell in the fires and flames of HELL because of his SINFUL PRIDE, EGO and JEALOSY with Jesus Christ, the Son of GOD.

[nailv]

@nikki
men are logical women are emotional..

example scenario

naay nka kita nga laki ug bae sa tao nga ni labang sa kalsada. akto naa sa atubangan nilang
duha naligsan ang babae ug namatay

1st reaction sa laki suko sa driver, cyagitan ang driver, tawag police tanawn kung buhi pba (measure things)

1st reacion sa babae cyagit to the max.. "tabang" (emotion strikes)

Logic Vs. Emotion is very hard to handle...

naa rana sa laki ug babae pag sabot sa ilang kaugalingun esp sa manag uyab ir sa manag asawa..
kung dmo ka adjust, dmo kadawat...mao ny rason nga mag buwag mo..

Tan awa TS.. mao ni ako gi mean nga LAHI ang perspective sa lalaki ug babaye..

gkan ni sa thread ni inday Nikki.. hehehe

https://www.istorya.net/forums/love/3...ml#post9650494

[nailv]

wa na'y ni reply. Speechless tanan TS... hehehe.. mao ra na tanan,,

Ayaw gyud ni e take for granted or palapos pikas dunggan kung gusto ka ug progress ug success sa imo life in general or social/love life.
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REPOST naku beh:

The experience taught me a lot and it's an education i feel obliged to pass on to my fellow men. Because if there's NO GUILE and there's NO GAME, there's NO GIRL.

~~ Will Smith, a.k.a. Alex Hitchens, from the movie, "Hitch" (2005 - starring Eva Mendes as gossip columnist Sarah Melas)

[vladmire]

@TS be happy... daghan mga chix ni-reply sa imong thread.. hehehe... you're not alone bro..

[Bricksand]

I'm speechless bro!

[dansoi_1234]

Days ago, as I was reviewing for the LET, just after our review, I met my college professor in Sociology. We talked about relationships. Then suddenly He opened the topic about Good Guys Never Chosen. He said that since college and until this day, as he observed my gestures, the stories I told him about my past relationships and how close I am to pretty girls yet I don't get any of them as my GF, he said that I should change my ways. I must be more provocative in terms of flirting and playing "games". But the thing is, I'm not that type. I was raised in a very traditional family and a very protective grandma. Must be the reason why I'm like this. Now, what he said confused me. What should I do?

Question:
"I told him about my past relationships" & "yet I don't get any of them as my GF" - nalibog ko kng nagka-uyab ka or wla jud?

Pila na kabuok imo gipanguyaban & pila pud nila ang kana matan-aw nimo hapit ka gisugot or puro basted?

Unsa pud style nimo manguyab?

Unsa ka mamorma or manamit?

Pasenxa dghn ko pangutana.. Basin makit.an nato unsay kuwang bah.. Kung kabntay ka mostly ng ask ko physical aspect nimo ky mura man gud ang pgpanguyab ug namaligya and imo self ang baligya.. 2nd is personality - kung mag match bah mo pero dli necessary ang match ky pwde pud mo click ang dili match sa tnang butang.. 3rd emotional part - mo develop rani later.. i don't believe in love at first sight but it will definitely matter..

I hope naa ko natabang..

[nailv]

TS! hahahaha! basaha ni ohh.. grabe naku katawa diri.. hahahaha

https://www.istorya.net/forums/love/3...-courting.html

[pinoy]

huwata lang boss di bitaw na contest and di pod na padaghanay. mo abot ra na... ayaw lang ug change.